G0wther said:
What's the explanation then? Why do guys struggle to get a gf when it seems like most girls are being courted to left and right?

if i knew the answer then i'd have a gf myself, lol

honestly i do find myself thinking about this a bit too; including wondering whether this is a real trend or just the way it appears from my limited viewport to the wider world.
if it is real then my best guess is that perhaps girls are, on average, more outgoing and sociable, and men more reclusive …
maybe one day i'll step outside and try to get to the bottom of this