@bipface: that might be something. On average, more men DO tend to have social-hindering disabilities than women so many may be too shy. That might also explain why women are so cautious about getting guys cause there a reasonable chance that they don't understand the emotional intimacy at all or that they are just plain creeps.

That still does not explain me though. I'm as charismatic as can be and tend to be smooth with words and my character is easy-going. A lot of times I just come out and ask and always get shot down by girls. (But guys tend to beg me to be with them.)

@Dragonlord2328: same. I want someone to give and take love with. Like you said, holding hands, etc. But its got to be a female. I don't even care if we "get down" as long as she is there.