Dragonlord2328 said:
Well turns out my friend who i work with knows a girl who is also a furry and hes gonna get me and her to meet once this is all over im hoping she could be the one

That mindset does seem to be part of the problem referred to; if they are, they are.

Do not try to imagine it overmuch, nor envision being 'together', lest you build up unrealistic or unattainable goals; you have not really met the girl yet, and desperation is about as unattractive as it gets.

Having said that, I will not drag out the old platitude of 'be yourself', yet will counsel positivity, and putting someone else's sexual well-being above and beyond one's own. Remember how I mention 'goals' above? :3

So yeah, good luck. And be fabulous. And a person.

Sharp_Coyote said:
That mindset does seem to be part of the problem referred to; if they are, they are.

i think you're reading too much into it
just sounds like a typical setup situation to me; common interests → maybe similar personalties → favourable odds, worth pursuing

So yeah, good luck. And be fabulous. And a person.

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Will do thanks