CCoyote said:
At what point did this conversation turn from "what's on your list?" to "let's criticize each other's choices"? I don't remember asking for anyone's feedback.

Also, not sharing your interests doesn't mean I have none at all. Kink shaming is not okay.

Gotta agree here. If we're asked to share something, especially something used specifically as an alternative to just shaming something, it should come with the assumption that we're not going to be shamed for using the blacklist, especially when using the blacklist is enforced by the rules anyway.

A lot of things on a lot of people's blacklists are things I would have a lot of questions about, but it's not my blacklist.

tl;dr version: this