For typical women, women like men who are confident, maybe cocky, etc etc, preferably an alpha-male; not a submissive guy. They want leaders. (at least from what I've been told)

http://encyclopediadramatica.com/Cooldude
lol

And the general expectation during sex is that the guy takes the dominant role.

That's how life works.
Usually.

But what about a different scenario? portrayed similarly in some anime, and furry porn, etc.
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An open-minded, sexually-liberated, promiscuous, female whom isn't afraid to take the initiative, and, instead of always going for the alpha-male guys, more times then not, they prefer to go to the nice/shy guys, sex 'em, arent afraid 2 guide them during so, more are willing to help, playful, etc

short description:
woman nympho who dont like assfuck alpha-males, perfer non-itiative/shy guys

example furry characters:
http://e621.net/post/show/46157/breasts-eric_schwartz-looking_at_viewer-sheila_vix
http://e621.net/post/show/44820/butt-butt_grab-canine-dog-eric_schwartz-female-fox

The question is:
Do such people exist? Or is this just pure fantasy expressed through anime & fur art?

Discuss. =)