Topic: Why flat chested?

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So I know that there are people out there who prefer a girl with a flat almost non existent bust. That just baffles me and I don't understand it. Could someone please explain to me how that is attractive? I mean don't get me wrong. I'm not knocking it, I'm just extremely confused and need some... enlightenment I guess.

Updated by D4rk

Everyone has their tastes, no matter how confusing they seem. I can't even make sense of my own.

Updated by anonymous

Well, you could say "For the same reason some people prefer having their arms tied during sex. It's just different preferences."

As to WHY, I'm honestly not sure, and I'm one of said people who generally admires the A-C cup range more than the D+.

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I'm one of the people who prefer a smaller bust.

Huge tits just seem impractical. I've been with 2 women who had relatively large busts. Something was always getting pinched or twisted. If she was on top I felt smothered. Doggy style was out of the question because they both said they hated the way their boobs dangled. Then came the horror stories of stretch marks, back problems, sagging over time, trouble doing anything below the chest without a mirror, etc.

I don't know, the collective problems just turned me off of that mess. It's easier to be personal with someone without things getting in the way.

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TonyCoon

Former Staff

I dunno how I can explain it - I don't really find breasts all that attractive, so girls with smaller ones are perfect for me.

Updated by anonymous

Try to explain why you like larger breasts.

It's difficult, isn't it?

Personally I'm more a fan of ferals than anthros, so naturally I prefer no boobs to boobs when the choice presents itself.

Updated by anonymous

They're elegant, and they conjure up ideas of youth (somewhat extreme ideas, granted), which most humans regard as something attractive and desirable. There could be many more complicated reasons for liking them from person to person, but these seem the most fundamental.

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Clawdragons said:
Try to explain why you like larger breasts.

It's difficult, isn't it?

Pretty much this. Sexual preferences are really hard to descripe sometimes. That's why there's saying "whatever floats your boat".

Updated by anonymous

Humans are the only species that have 'engorged' breasts when the female isn't lactating or preparing to lactate. Larger breasts also trends towards lower quality milk production.

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I love fit, athletic girls. And tomboys.
It would be safe to say I like my girls a bit boyish, and me boys a bit girlish.

Curvy, voluptuous, chubby, even, are all far too ... matronly ... for me, and run opposite to my tastes. These things speak to me of softness, of lassitude; a sedentary lifestyle.

Anywhere from flat-chested to b-cup, with nicely defined abs, and this 'yote is in heaven.

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A, B, C, D. It matters not of the size of the bust (Although I prefer B-C mostly). The lower mounds of fat are much more important.

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I've dated both flat-chested and big boobed girls before. I like both. From my experience, the flat-chested girl (A-cup) was more athletic (she was a distance runner on my track team hurrr~) and more agile without the big boobs weighing her down. Although, my relationship lasted longer with the big boobed girl (DD-cup) because I've known her longer and she had more personality. I screwed up in both relationships and that is why I'm single for now but to be honest, I really don't mind being single.

Boobers.

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Clawdragons said:
Try to explain why you like larger breasts.

It's difficult, isn't it?

One could make the argument that bigger breasts is a more feminine form than flat chest, people want and enjoy those feminine features because they like girls.

Updated by anonymous

Oh boy. This is a flame war just begging to erupt.

I generally prefer larger frames myself, I feel as though it is cuter and more to my tastes. I look at it as more of a preference rather than a fetish. Trying to convince others to your tastes usually is a dead end, though. Everything regarding sexuality and looks is quite subjective.

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R-U-S-T-Y said:
One could make the argument that bigger breasts is a more feminine form than flat chest, people want and enjoy those feminine features because they like girls.

Unfortunately that tends to fall a bit flat because breasts are not actually a feminine trait. Wait wait, hear me out!

I'm not talking about the fact that men can have big breasts or anything like that. What I mean is when you look at other species, you'll see that they do not have breasts like humans do - they might have nipples, and some protrusion, but it's an entirely different feature for most species, including our closest relatives, apes (well, I mean, we are apes, but you know what I mean).

Anyway, my point is that breasts developed in humans for a reason. I've heard several proposals for what that reason is, but that reason cannot have been because they seem feminine, since at the point they were developing, there was no basis for such a mental connection. The reason males find breasts attractive is likely a result of that reason.

Probably, ultimately, it is something similar to the reason that people prefer facial symmetry and other such features - they act as indicators of health and good genetics.

I like to imagine they are an example of Zahavi Handicapping, even though I really don't have a basis for that. Makes some sense though, even if it's probably wrong.

Updated by anonymous

I know a lot of people who like girls, but they tend to not like girls with breasts features, the ones where the chest shows. From what I seem to understand, it has to do with how they simply prefer younger looking females in general or young/chibi animal-like character, and have no interests about older females

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mrox said:
Humans are the only species that have 'engorged' breasts when the female isn't lactating or preparing to lactate. Larger breasts also trends towards lower quality milk production.

I'm pretty sure that last statement is not true. I believe that all virtually studies have shown that breast size has no impact on milk production whatsoever, no matter how small they are, and certainly not if they are large.

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stuhan12 said:
So I know that there are people out there who prefer a girl with a flat almost non existent bust. That just baffles me and I don't understand it. Could someone please explain to me how that is attractive? I mean don't get me wrong. I'm not knocking it, I'm just extremely confused and need some... enlightenment I guess.

"whatever blows your skirt up."

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I wish I had dated enough girls to actually have a preference but unfortunately I have never dated anyone before, males or females.

Though now that I think of it, I have been alone with many a female that have offered to let me touch their boobs before because they wanted to hook up with me, but I always deny the offer because I'm just not interested in either them or their boobs.

I mean, I have never really seen the sexual allure of "coping a feel" so even if I did finally get a girlfriend or I just "hooked up" with some random chick, (not that I will ever be lucky wnough for either of those things will ever happen, mind you) her boob size wouldn't really matter that much to me. (as long as they aren't ridiculously huge or obstuctive or something that is)

Logically speaking, I just don't see how boobs turn anyone on when the more interesting parts of the female body are down below. I personally rather lick and play with a girl's nethers all night to see exacly where all of her g-spots are than play with two big, uninteresting sacks of milk. But that's just me.

(Of course neither of those activities really appeal to me all that much either since I don't very much like participating in sexual activity, but whatever.)

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I think I just find flat chests to be quite a cute feature. Also I'm bisexual so maybe because a flat chest looks more ambiguous I prefer them sometimes.

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Frankly? Idgaf, as long as my partner's happy with their whatever then so am I. It's all about happiness, the feeling that they're confident with their body, how they present themselves.

If they're obviously not bothered by their bust then I won't be, either. Yet I'm also like.. hyper sensitive to body language and catch onto how people feel pretty easily and quickly, so when they're not comfortable I tend not to be, either, and it makes things awkward.

I'll be just as attracted to a woman with large tits as I will be to a woman with small or average tits if they're obviously content or happy with them, too. Confidence in one's self, especially one's body, is sexy, and it even shows.

Whether they're a man or woman it shows if they're confident and happy with themselves and that's what draws me in. I just naturally gravitate toward and like whatever assets people like that just have.

It's easy to make pretty much anything sexy or attractive if you have the right mindset, that mindset, as far as I can tell, being to find attractive the people that find themselves attractive. I guess it's kind of a "how can you accept my love if you don't love yourself" sorta thing only, speaking strictly sexual attractiveness, it's more "if you don't find yourself sexy how can I" than the other.

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Because they like it, end of story. Aren't pointless topics like these against the rules?

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Every size below E is ok as long as it isn't completely flat. (my opinion)

Small/flat breasts seems to be very sensitive, also some interesting poses are possible during sex

"normal" sized breasts are the "allrounders" to say so, minimal limitation in movement.

The bigger ones there are also useful for several things during fun (boobjob), a negative point is that they can get in the way or get unpleasant for her in some ways.

As long as it isn't to flat or too big every womens breast size is beautiful in some way.

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