Topic: How important sex is in your life and how important are your unrealistic fetishes for you

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This is a very personal topic, I understand if you don't want to comment. It's just a general curiosity thread where you can share your experiences and see others.

My point is, basically, that I kind of want to know how people deal with their impossible fetishes in their lives, and how important sex itself is to them too obviously.

By "unrealistic" or "impossible" fetishes I mean fetishes that only exist in fiction. Furry, gigantic, a fictional character in specific, interspecies (with fictional species), unharmful vore... pretty much any fetish that you for some reason can't do because it's simply physically impossible.

If you have any of these or one not mentioned above, how do you deal with it? Is it just a mere plus fap material for you? you honestly really wish it was real? you don't actually care that much?
And if this affects your real sex life, how does it do?

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I guess it would be unfair if I don't share anything from my side so I will start as an example.

In my case I have some fictional interspecies fetish (like many around here) but it doesn't affect me that much since it's just a kink for me. The fictional character "fetish" (if this is even one) is there too sometimes but very rarely since I'm not romantic at all, or barely.

Although (this is the fucked up part) I'm almost not attracted to other people, being my "fetishes" almost all of my sexual interest, but my sexual interest overall is not so big so it doesn't annoy me significantly.

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inb4 Bad Dragon sex toys

Depending on the kind of furry, I'd imagine many are attracted to the human parts and just imagine the other bits while fucking a human. I've heard of people using fursuits to simulate it with varying levels of success.

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I'm not interested in having regular sex with other people. It make me kinda nauseous to think about tbh. So that's not a part of my life or relationships.

I do have kinks and fetish and as far as using impossible kinks in real life goes, it's possible if you're creative. Roleplay, props, imagination, and willingness to think outside variations of 'insert tab a into slot b' go a long way.

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I do have kinks and fetish and as far as using impossible kinks in real life goes, it's possible if you're creative. Roleplay, props, imagination, and willingness to think outside variations of 'insert tab a into slot b' go a long way.

I would say those are ways to approaching to the fetish, but it doesn't mean it can be 100% real.
Anyway in this case this would be the way you deal with your unrealistic fetishes, which is exactly what I meant.

Considering sex with other people usually brings a nauseous feeling in me too so I understand what you mean.

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inb4 "I only fuck dogs" :\

Sex, in and of itself, is absolutely nothing to strive for to me. Only matters as a part of something else, and even then, it's not the primary focus.

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Fenrick said:
inb4 "I only fuck dogs"

That would be rare but not impossible or unrealistic.

Impossible would be "I want to fuck this dog cartoon character".
"So I only fuck dogs" would be the way someone might deal with it.

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What is this sex people speak of all the time.

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