hsauq said:
Suggested alternative, unless it already exists in some form:

interrupted_orgasm

An orgasm that's shown to be weakened or even outright ended as a result of a sudden alteration to one's physical or psychological state while orgasming.

Not the same as orgasm_denial. While an attempt at orgasm denial can lead to an interrupted orgasm due to a abrupt interruption or ending of erotic stimulation, the key difference between the two scenarios is that the recipient manages to reach the point of no return in an interrupted orgasm.

If that's still too vague or easy to mistag, I apologize for wasting everyone's time.

I like this. As can be seen, a LOT of people have a different meaning for "ruined," yet "interrupted" is obvious, it's clear. It essentially means "stopped prematurely," everyone knows what interrupted means, or.. well.. I'd reckon most do, anyway.

The biggest problem I foresee, however, is how to treat it. "interrupted orgasm" isn't a term people would really use outside of this site, so most'd still end up searching for "ruined," most likely. If we alias ruined to interrupted then we still have the issue of people tagging badly but if we don't alias it then people who aren't super familiar with the site won't get any results since the tag would be invalidated.

And if we don't change it at all then we still have to deal with everyone's different definition of "ruined" because no one bothers to read the wiki when tagging. Regardless, I still feel "interrupted" is the best term, the problems that may come with aliasing are the same sort of problems that any other tag has when unfamiliar people come around to look up porn and, hopefully, just like those when they're tagged improperly they can be fixed quickly and easily.