Hello. I just made an account to ask this, because I'm pretty much at a loss here. I hope someone here can help.

I am a 24 year old disabled trans-woman. And my fursona is a 7 year old kitten girl.
I want to find a daddy for her and, hopefully, myself IRL. I'm very lusty, so I love casual NSFW RPs. However, I haven't found any site/community that allows lewd cub plays. You are the only place I know of that allows lewd cubs. But you are an image board...

I've recently lost a bf I've been with for over a year and it lays heavy on me. I'm very sad, as I don't have a caregiver anymore and I have no idea where to look for one.

I hope asking this question isn't a problem here? I just can't think of a better place to ask this, than my favorite site to look for lewd art (including cubs).
So, do you know any site, community, or anything, where I could look for potential partners, who could care for a cub like me?

AuroraDreemurr said:
Hello. I just made an account to ask this, because I'm pretty much at a loss here. I hope someone here can help.

I am a 24 year old disabled trans-woman. And my fursona is a 7 year old kitten girl.
I want to find a daddy for her and, hopefully, myself IRL. I'm very lusty, so I love casual NSFW RPs. However, I haven't found any site/community that allows lewd cub plays. You are the only place I know of that allows lewd cubs. But you are an image board...

I've recently lost a bf I've been with for over a year and it lays heavy on me. I'm very sad, as I don't have a caregiver anymore and I have no idea where to look for one.

I hope asking this question isn't a problem here? I just can't think of a better place to ask this, than my favorite site to look for lewd art (including cubs).
So, do you know any site, community, or anything, where I could look for potential partners, who could care for a cub like me?

www.f-list.net

GoldForest said:
www.f-list.net

Yeah, f-list is probably your best bet. It allows cub characters, according to their rules : Note that underage characters are allowed, provided everyone involved is a consenting adult in real life.

You just have to make sure that you identify yourself as being over 18. Your character can be under 18, but you can't say that you (the character owner and site user) are under 18.

F-List does not allow sharing rl information with other role players, it's not a real life hookup site.

NotMeNotYou said:
F-List does not allow sharing rl information with other role players, it's not a real life hookup site.

Exactly. I am considering F-list for roleplays, but I need another place to look for an RL partner. And it's important that I can share my love for cubs with them.

e6 allows cub art, but if you're really looking for cub-focused, I'd recommend Inkbunny. Still an image gallery, but a lot more lenient towards rp. (Hell, some artists even encourage creepy comments)

Don't know shit about the community (helpfull?, forums?), but maybe you can find something.

Edit: well if they have forums, they're damn good at hiding them :/

MyNameIsOver20charac said:
e6 allows cub art, but if you're really looking for cub-focused, I'd recommend Inkbunny. Still an image gallery, but a lot more lenient towards rp. (Hell, some artists even encourage creepy comments)

Don't know shit about the community (helpfull?, forums?), but maybe you can find something.

Im pretty sure that isn't exactly about finding places for that sort of stuff. The person seems to be looking for partner for irl caregiver/little roleplay stuff.

hiekkapillu said:
Im pretty sure that isn't exactly about finding places for that sort of stuff. The person seems to be looking for partner for irl caregiver/little roleplay stuff.

Certainly rp friendly, but yeah you're right, sry.

Hmm, if you're looking for an irl caretaker/daddy, then maybe try some ageplay sites? Like, instead of telling that you're a cub on a furry dating site, maybe you could find an ageplay dating site (pretty sure that they exist) and say that you're a furry. Idk but it could be worth a
try ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

MyNameIsOver20charac said:
Hmm, if you're looking for an irl caretaker/daddy, then maybe try some ageplay sites? Like, instead of telling that you're a cub on a furry dating site, maybe you could find an ageplay dating site (pretty sure that they exist) and say that you're a furry. Idk but it could be worth a
try ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

I think I will try. Thanks. I don't get it why they ban cubs so much. As that actually helps reduce rl pedophilia, as studies show. This doesn't make much sense. Just separate it from the rest of the site, label it clearly as a place for cubs/cub lovers and done. What's the problem people have?

There's always Tapestries.

AuroraDreemurr said:
I think I will try. Thanks. I don't get it why they ban cubs so much. As that actually helps reduce rl pedophilia, as studies show. This doesn't make much sense. Just separate it from the rest of the site, label it clearly as a place for cubs/cub lovers and done. What's the problem people have?

Let's not get into that debate.

CCoyote said:
There's always Tapestries.

That seems interesting. But BDSM? Isn't that like pain and bondage and stuff? And fulfilling orders, you know? Not really into that.

AuroraDreemurr said:
That seems interesting. But BDSM? Isn't that like pain and bondage and stuff? And fulfilling orders, you know? Not really into that.

Forgive me if I'm prejudiced, but isn't that a part of 'daddy play'? At different levels of course. And of course bdsm ranges from handcuffs and "naughty girl" to electrified nipple-clamps and "piss-drinking whore". However far you wanna take it :)

MyNameIsOver20charac said:
Forgive me if I'm prejudiced, but isn't that a part of 'daddy play'? At different levels of course. And of course bdsm ranges from handcuffs and "naughty girl" to electrified nipple-clamps and "piss-drinking whore". However far you wanna take it :)

I think it does kinda overlap. But 'daddy play' also involves putting diapers on your 'baby', giving them a pacifier. I'm into all that kind of stuff.

AuroraDreemurr said:
I think it does kinda overlap.

I'm just finding it hard to picture an abdl relationship completely without D/s aspects.

But 'daddy play' also involves putting diapers on your 'baby', giving them a pacifier. I'm into all that kind of stuff.

All the bigger reason to look into ageplay sites if you don't like tapestries.

MyNameIsOver20charac said:
I'm just finding it hard to picture an abdl relationship completely without D/s aspects.
All the bigger reason to look into ageplay sites if you don't like tapestries.

There are D/s aspects, but not as extreme, as in your typical BDSM session.

AuroraDreemurr said:
I think I will try. Thanks. I don't get it why they ban cubs so much. As that actually helps reduce rl pedophilia, as studies show. This doesn't make much sense. Just separate it from the rest of the site, label it clearly as a place for cubs/cub lovers and done. What's the problem people have?

My best guess is that's done to cover site owner's asses. You never know if the govt is gonna do a crackdown on your site because you're hosting explicit drawings of anthro animals resembling young kids. Personally, I'm not into it, and I don't care about it.

AuroraDreemurr said:
That seems interesting. But BDSM? Isn't that like pain and bondage and stuff? And fulfilling orders, you know? Not really into that.

Ageplay is one of dozens of kinks. BDSM can mean a myriad of things: bondage and discipline, domination and submission, sadism and masochism, and more. But it almost never means all of those things to a single person. If daddy play is what you're looking for, there's no requirement at all for you to explore anything else. :-)

CCoyote said:
Ageplay is one of dozens of kinks. BDSM can mean a myriad of things: bondage and discipline, domination and submission, sadism and masochism, and more. But it almost never means all of those things to a single person. If daddy play is what you're looking for, there's no requirement at all for you to explore anything else. :-)

Thank you, if they allow cubs, I will try joining them today. You know, there's a difference between having a cub character and having an ageplaying adult character. Any more suggestions? :)

As a comment, it's been a long time since I"ve been on a MUD/MUCK/MOO/MUSH, etc... but... I expect there would be a bit of a learning curve. The technology originally was created back in the late 80's. To put it a little bluntly, it's a little dated.

Just hang in there. It's not too hard to learn (I mean, I figured it out when I was 13...) and people should generally be happy to help out. :)

When all else fails, try help :)

(.... I can't believe furry muck has under 200 people online... geeze..)

CCoyote said:
There's always Tapestries.

Ok, I registered there and verified. Now it told me to wait up to 48 hours for wizards' approval.
Other than that, I learned a lot reading their policies and some info about MUCKs. It seems very fun actually! ^^

Edit: Are you guys sure they allow cub characters though?

AuroraDreemurr said:
Ok, I registered there and verified. Now it told me to wait up to 48 hours for wizards' approval.
Other than that, I learned a lot reading their policies and some info about MUCKs. It seems very fun actually! ^^

Edit: Are you guys sure they allow cub characters though?

If you look at their policies about roleplaying and TS it clearly stats that some forms of (sexual) play are considered too disruptive for public areas... which include "pedophilia".

Additionally, it says, that under age human characters are disruptive in public area that do not explicitly allow it."

One can infer from this that underage cub character are allowed in public areas, and that pedophilic scenes may not happen in public places either.

So, I'd venture that your cub character is allowed, but any playtime will probably have to go somewhere more private. What I do not know is where the border is between a 'pedophilic' scene and regular roleplaying. (After all, if a 'daddy and daughter' are lightly cuddling in public, that seems okay... but then everyone knows that Taps is a place for sexual interaction and there is probably an adult aspect to their relationship.... so I could see some people finding that objectionable. On the other hand, that would be rather draconian,so, I'd doubt that would be the case. Just feel thigns out, err on the side of caution :)

(also, I hope you enjoy it! I spent so much time on assorted MU*'s over the years. :) )

SnowWolf said:
If you look at their policies about roleplaying and TS it clearly stats that some forms of (sexual) play are considered too disruptive for public areas... which include "pedophilia".

Additionally, it says, that under age human characters are disruptive in public area that do not explicitly allow it."

One can infer from this that underage cub character are allowed in public areas, and that pedophilic scenes may not happen in public places either.

So, I'd venture that your cub character is allowed, but any playtime will probably have to go somewhere more private. What I do not know is where the border is between a 'pedophilic' scene and regular roleplaying. (After all, if a 'daddy and daughter' are lightly cuddling in public, that seems okay... but then everyone knows that Taps is a place for sexual interaction and there is probably an adult aspect to their relationship.... so I could see some people finding that objectionable. On the other hand, that would be rather draconian,so, I'd doubt that would be the case. Just feel thigns out, err on the side of caution :)

(also, I hope you enjoy it! I spent so much time on assorted MU*'s over the years. :) )

I love the concept of this! Tapestries definitely seems like a place for me! But... There aren't many people. Which is a bummer, since I'd like a bigger community to join and play with in different locations.

AuroraDreemurr said:
Tapestries definitely seems like a place for me! But... There aren't many people.

Game stats indicate 414 people are connected at 5:00 in the morning. The number of rooms is countless. How many people are you looking for? :-)

CCoyote said:
Game stats indicate 414 people are connected at 5:00 in the morning. The number of rooms is countless. How many people are you looking for? :-)

In big public spaces, there are people, yeah. But I haven't found many places for loving cubs. And the most populated one has... 10 people max. I can ask in public, but should I?

Ok, I have to say, thank you guys for Tapestries. I'm making great friends there! :) It's fun!

However, I don't believe I'd find an RL lover for me. Great RP lovers, sure! But not really RL. Do you know a better place for that?