Topic: How did you discover your kink/fetish?

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Always wondered how people discovered their kinks/fetishes and while sometimes it’s easy to tell why someone would be into a particular thing I believe it’s interesting to learn how they got into it in the first place.

Me personally I like panties mainly due to watching porn and coming across the panty tag, I don’t know I guess I like it because it’s one of those things that you’re not really supposed to see and because I think some panty designs are cute (striped and pink are my favorite). What’s your story?

I'm pretty sure I have a pee fetish because I remember when I was young, I accidentally walked in on a girl who was peeing. For years I kinda equated a naked girl to peeing, so if I heard a girl peeing in the restroom or something, it wouldn't "excite me" (as I was too young for that) but it definitely made me think "wow!"
And when I got older, it kinda grew from just listening to a girl pee to actually wanting to see a girl pee. And I've been kinda into it since.
Now I am not SUPER into the pee fetish but it's something I like if I come across it or I have a partner who is open to it.

I am also kind of into femdom shit and I found I like that because then I don't have to wonder if she enjoyed the sex or not, because she was in control, so if she didn't enjoy it, that's her fault hahaha

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I really do not like to think of myself as to having a "kink / fetish". But then I am a Furry, which I assume is more than enough for the vast majority of people, outside of this site, to think of me as a not very well adjusted mentally, I suppose.

=S

My favorites are there, just two clicks away for anyone to see. And if someone takes the effort, sees in me a kind of "fetish" (within the subset of standards of Furry Fandom)... well, I would thank him / her for helping me to understand myself a little better.

=).

Most of myfetishes come from watching cartoons and I learned thanks to e6 that I had s toonophilia, I find cartoon character doing unrealistic, weird and humiliating things sexy. I have afew common fetishes that I don't think I've developed from watching cartoons, I like feet, but if it's someone else's feet it's not nearly as sexy as a toon's hyperfeet. I like fat, but I would never marry an obese girl, it's more specific to furries and toons.

Those are all the fetishes I have thannks to cartoons.
#Inflation
#Flattening
#Vore
#Hyper
#Wedgies
#Nudity
#Hydrophilia and specifically getting harassed by a sentient raincloud, it's from the pink panther, but I don't think anybody else has this fetish.
#Hypnosis
#Being coiled by a snake or even a tail.
#Stink
#Bondage
#Transformation
#R63

This process is rapidly accelerasting due to elsagate and kids being allowed to watch youtube videos unsupervised.

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wolfmanfur said:
This process is rapidly accelerasting due to elsagate and kids being allowed to watch youtube videos unsupervised.

I’ll tell you man, these “elsagate” youtube videos are scary. One day I came across a kid watching these kinds of videos and it’s borderline porn

Basically, furry porn has given me all of the fetishes I assume:

Pointlessly theorizing about why fetishes appeal to me
  • feral - Who knows? Perhaps it's easier for me to sexual something further removed from realistic sex, or maybe it seems more "primal", or maybe the designs (and anatomy) are more interesting
  • bara - tasty masculinity--self-explanatory
  • chastity, edging, and orgasm_denial - Edging feels amazing and orgasms just make me feel tired and, well, no longer horny (which is no fun!). Chastity cages have the benefit of keeping your junk nice and snug, essentially groping your junk 24/7, helping you stay horny. I wouldn't be surprised if getting into these was the direct result of me being "addicted" (using the word loosely; let's not argue about definitions) to furry porn, jerking off mid-day, and absolutely hating how tired it made me feel.
  • voyeurism - Isn't porn just voyeurism in the first place? If I had to guess though, maybe this has some more appeal to me since it's less intimate, and I'm such a socially anxious shut-in... Maybe group_masturbation appeals to me for similar reasons.
  • public_use - free sex and the rush of a rape-y power fantasy
  • cuckold - it's voyeurism + orgasm_denial
  • null (including lots of living_inflables)/null_bulge/chastity_bulge/featureless_crotch - an extension of orgasm_denial, since there's a lack of genitals to orgasm with. Also, in part, a result of me looking for more suggestive non-explicit porn.
  • omorashi, watersports, scat - These are a bit mysterious. Keep in mind that piss and shit come out of very sexy places, pooping or having a full bladder can potentially press on the prostate, these basically doubles as humiliation fetishes, and they have extreme smells (and tastes...) ensuring an extreme experience, which is a very good thing if you're enjoying it and a very bad thing if you're not... To elaborate on the humiliation thing, being into scat (even if I don't actually do anything with the fetish irl), makes me feel like such a pervert, which is a great mindset when viewing porn. It's perhaps worth noting that omorashi/watersports may have in part come about as a horny teenager due to finding an internet forum called GetDare where users "dared" others to do kinky things, and trying some stuff from there.
  • rimming, facesitting, and anal_vore - butts are sexy, duh! Also, oral fixation, I guess.
  • hyper_genitalia/macro/penis_worship/balls_worship - dick and balls are sexy, duh!
  • genital_slits, cloaca (both reptilian and avian), and slit_play - One reason is these can sometimes make it ambiguous what the character's sex is (slits can look like pussies) and I kind of have a thing for porn with ambiguous characters. But furthermore, slits basically double as two genitals in a way, since not only do you have a penis to play with, but also the inside of the pussy-like slit to play with. Slit sex is basically penetrative sex and frottage simultaneously.
  • diapers - just because it's cute or watersports/scat + humiliation
  • cub - usually just because it's cute... That's the full explanation for the tamer stuff, but for more fucked up stuff, see my "perverted" comment on scat.
  • nipple_play and male_lactation - My nipples are very sensitive, irl. Male_lactation is an extension of nipple_play.
  • plushophilia - cute and comforting and furry in both senses of the word: It's anthro, and also the texture of faux fur is really nice on certain sensitive parts.

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I really like anesthesia and also drugging by extension. The thought of being completely out of control and not able to even struggle is very appealing. I think this comes from the couple times I had to have surgery as a kid. It was terrifying the first time, but it kinda stuck with me and got weird. Cub is also something I like a lot, and it's mostly because it's cute, though imagining myself as the cub is another big part. That probably is also related to the power dynamic thing.

I just recently made a forum about why Cum Inflation is a popular fetish that has existed in porn media. And it had me get a love interest in the fetish. So it would be reasonable if I share my answer here.

It all started here and on Twitter. I was just scrolling through E621 looking at gay furry porn when I saw this image of a male getting impregnated by another male. At first, I was weirded out. But as I continued to look into it, it started to get to me and I had imaginations of a fantasy world of my furry sona just getting filled up to the brim with semen from his partners. I just think having cum in your insides just feel good you know. You feel the warmness of semen in your stomach and the fluids just inflating your stomach. It would feel good just having a huge tons of semen coming out from your ass as it starts to soak your bed sheets. Like I get it's just fiction and it's weird to share it in public or even on sites like this. But maybe it's normal for a community of you guys who discuss their mature and sexual wonders.

Anyway that's how I got my fetish. I don't usually like fictional stuff, but I like this fetish in the furry universe.

I guess the same way it happens for a lot of others:
Get exposed to it as a kid, it becomes a thing stuck in your head as you grow, feel negatively or positively about it, and then you wake up and go "oh... god damn it."
lol

bahebros said:
I guess the same way it happens for a lot of others:
Get exposed to it as a kid, it becomes a thing stuck in your head as you grow, feel negatively or positively about it, and then you wake up and go "oh... god damn it."
lol

Yep. Discovered what I'm into when I was really young, then learned there were words for it that I could put into Google when I was old enough to use the internet. :3

garbagehumanbeing said:
Cub is also something I like a lot, and it's mostly because it's cute, though imagining myself as the cub is another big part. That probably is also related to the power dynamic thing.

It's the same for me.

EDIT: I recently discovered a term for my fetish: I'm a teratophile! But I'll still leave these details up because teratophilia is a bit of a spectrum in itself, ranging from deformed humans to eldritch horrors and everything in between.

bahebros said:
I guess the same way it happens for a lot of others:
Get exposed to it as a kid, it becomes a thing stuck in your head as you grow, feel negatively or positively about it, and then you wake up and go "oh... god damn it."
lol

Sums up my experience too. I saw some scenes from certain movies when I was younger and went on to discover they gave me many fetishes. To go into a little detail:

  • The maternity ward scene from Aliens vs. Predator: Requiem gave me an oral egg_insertion kink…and also made me like mandibles a fair bit.
  • I also discovered I have a few more kinks related to Xenomorphs, which include
  • I also got exposed to Tremors when I was younger and that gave me even more kinks inspired by the Graboid; notably,
    • a specific kind of vore involving worms and maws resembling those of worms (also my favorite kind of vore),
    • long prehensile tongues/tentacles/bits with mouths that writhe like snakes (btw I love the thought of the tongues slipping between the mandibles and beak as they writhe, especially when they're (nearly) closed),
    • beaks (not bird beaks, but beaks closer to cephalopods and ceratopsians), and
    • mandibles (again, and in addition to point above) — on the Graboid they really add to the 'gulp' factor when the maw closes up.
  • Coincidently, both species I just mentioned have no eyes, which I find enhances their sexiness. So I also like eyeless creatures, and even creatures whose eyes have no_pupils.
  • On a minor note,
    • The Dark Crystal's puppetry also influenced my preference for lifelike, 'physical' depictions of creatures.
    • Honorable mention to those big reptile-like aliens from Metroid as well. Not a movie franchise, but still noteworthy.

…though the 'alien' physiology I previously mentioned gets me rock hard without fail and it's all thanks to a couple of films.

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The only one of mine I can trace back to a childhood experience is my piss kink. When I was about eight or nine I was in a summer day camp program where we were only allowed to go to the bathroom when there was a designated break. One day I had to pee pretty bad and there was about a half hour until the next break, so I complained about it to the kid next to me. He told me to just let out a little bit into my underwear, and said that that's what he had been doing. So I tried it, and it felt really good. Every couple of minutes I would let out another spurt into my underwear, being careful not to let it show on my shorts. I was enjoying myself so much that I actually didn't go to the bathroom when it came time for the break, and I remember I felt kinda betrayed when the kid next to me did lol. Braedon, if you're out there, it's your fault I have a piss kink.

Anyway, it just sort of grew from there over the course of my life; when I discovered porn piss was some of the first stuff I looked up, and eventually I got into scat as well. Nowadays I'm into pretty much anything piss or shit related (the only stuff I don't really care for is ABDL/infantilization, humiliation/degradation, and diarrhea). But that early experience still colors my fetish: my favorite stuff is people wetting or soiling themselves on purpose, especially in public, or just otherwise going where they're not supposed to, especially if they're unashamed about it or its treated completely casually.

(Now that I'm thinking about it I guess this might be where my enhibitionism kink started as well)

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Well...

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My kink is pretty sad. Not the kink itself, but my reasons for it.

I am really into intimacy. Specifically male/female intimacy.

Why? Because Im lonely. Really lonely.

In fact, I would dare say I wouldnt be into (or considerably less into) porn if I could have someone to be intimate with.

Can anyone relate?

Mine mostly stem from humiliation and physical restraints early on in the american "medical" system (first I had a half-body cast when I was a toddler, later it was restraints over and over for "psychiatric" reasons, I find out later of course these are "applied behavior" half-hospital-half-spiritual-prison mostly funded by religious people). Religion is at the base of most of my shame, so I try to find a place such as "sub space" where I can "safely be out of control" while still in control via consent or the act of being the artist/consumer of porn (I get to decide when to stop versus in real life where it never ends). A majority of the problems i face, i try to channel into power play, to get over the authoritarian mind fuck that is living in this country of puritanical liars.

lugie_boy said:
My kink is pretty sad. Not the kink itself, but my reasons for it.

I am really into intimacy. Specifically male/female intimacy.

Why? Because Im lonely. Really lonely.

In fact, I would dare say I wouldnt be into (or considerably less into) porn if I could have someone to be intimate with.

Can anyone relate?

I can somewhat relate to that, but my case is a bit different.

While it might not be regarded as a kink per se, I really ‘admire’ DILF characters (which includes mature men, musclegut and muscular bodies, bara, all those things).

This all stems from me growing up without a father figure. Although I didn’t think much of it in my early years, I started to realize at one point how sad and lonely I feel without a loving and caring father figure in my life 😢

Thanks to puberty, that transformed into me being attracted to DILF characters. The weird thing is I’m not into human DILFs, but more into anthropomorphic DILFs. Perhaps it’s because I love soft and cuddly anthro bears more than human ‘bears’.

I mean, look at them:

post #1144206 post #2242002 post #3411337

I just want to run to those daddies and give them a heartfelt hug 🥰

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I can't list every kink/fetish I have because some are more out there and I'll have to update this post as I remember.

A weird amount came from the first live action scooby do movie (most I can't list)
Feet/paws - It stemmed from the scene where Scooby wore Daph's and they made a rubbery sound (also trampling a-la diablotherex came from the end of the first spongebob movie). Young me liked it for some reason. That later stemmed into me liking giantess stuff (I only like feet art related, never IRL) and wanting to be trapped in their shoe which dropped out but later came back up as:
Macro/Micro. More on the micro side than macro since I'll never understand city destruction. The size difference is also too big and just generally impractical. Micro and paws are extremely closely related.
Omorashi - Scrappy doo scene. Why? I'm still wondering myself.

The rest are:
Hypnosis - I can't remember where it came from but I like the loss of control
Latex (come on e6, alias rubber to latex already. No one calls the clothing "rubber") - Blame Totally Spies. Oddly enough, that's the only thing I got from the show, given it's vast amount of kink material. I always wanted Sam's suit for some reason.
Vore - Ferngully. If you've seen it, you know the lizard.
Bondage

There's others that I can't list that, as I said, are a bit "out there" but what I've found out with new kinks is that I'm introduced to them in passing and don't have a big interest in it at first but over time the more I see it the more y brain seems to find more way to like it until it because a full blown kink. Feet/Paws for example first stated with me liking images where the feet were in the background but with the soles visible like with Bonk's art where they're there but they're not really the main focus until years pass and you get to where my faves are now

The only kink I act on IRL is latex. The rest are either purely art like feet/paws or haven't had the chance to try it out like bondage. There are also things I like like All-the-way-through multiple insertions but they're not really fetishy like paws are. It's more an extension of the big furry dicks (non-hyper) you usually see in art, around the size of the XL IRL toys that you can get. Same with abdominal bulge. I can 100% blame Kidsune on that Chance video he made years ago.

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I discovered my leather fetish when my fathers old leather jacket that he had when he was 15 was given to me when i was 14.
It felt so good to the touch and the creaking...
Today i have a collection of pants and jackets that i use during autumn, winter and early spring.^^

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