The_Diggler said:

LOOONG ASS TEXT but hey it's got pictures :D

Ok first off. I get people have mixed feelings about this term, but I honestly think that's because people don't know when and where it's supposed to be used.

Second. I know what an anus/ass is. Please no smartass remarks on basic human anonymity. I want to give an example of why people use that term and would like to here why it bothers people so much.

Now, the term "boi pussy" should be used in really only one genre of porn. Feminization . Feminizing is the act of taking someone and making them as "feminine" as possible. I would NOT use boi pussy when describing normal gay sex. nothing about that implies anything about a pussy. And that's where I think most gays get offended.

"HOW DARE YOU CALL MY BEAUTIFUL, SUCCULENT, PERFECT ASS A..*GASP* PUSSY!!" >:O

and I get this. you are completely right in thinking that way. Buuut normally when I see people upset over this term, it's on images depicting, you guessed it, feminization . and it's really starting to rustle my jimmies.

here are examples: post #713566 post #712932 post #712939

post #712402

These are all instances where I think "boi pussy" would be ok simply because these characters are imitating girls, and we know that girls have pussies. *please no complicated gender role argument, you know what I mean.*

inb4> "but digg, they aren't imitating girls! Their just expressing themselves HMPF! >:I"

Well,all those have the "girly" tag on them. So for the most part e621 agrees they want to be like girls. In a way mind you.

Now, when you are a fan of feminization/male humiliation or whatever you want to call it, it's a compliment to tell a "sissy boi" that he has a "boi pussy". It's the ultimate level of emasculation...well besides, you know, *snip snip*. To tell this male that his ass is in fact not an ass at all but just a variation of a pussy. It's part of the fetish and I think a lot of people, gays most of all imo, seem to not understand that and take offense to it.

I agree that any other picture involving males doing sexual things that isn't feminization shouldn't prompt any "boi pussy" talk. here are some examples.

post #714234 post #713817 post #713425 post #712876

These images are just some good o'l fashioned male/male action. I can see no reason to think this is feminization at all. But it's not on these images that I'm always seeing the problem.

This is my best attempt to explain the use of the term and I don't expect you all to just suddenly like it now, but I at least wanted to shed some light on it's usage and hopefully you will be more tolerating.

If you have a problem with "boi pussy" PLEASE explain why, I'd love to hear your opinion. :D

~The Diggler

ps.
tl;dr get the fuck out. >:I

ps. I'm going to school this morning so I might not be able to respond until the after noon.

What is the point of the tag if male + girly + anus solve that? Are there instances this tag would ever be used without either of those?

Well, anyone who replaces y with an i should be destroyed in a very quick, yet highly painful way, so anything that means it's used less is a good idea.

NotMeNotYou said:
What is the point of the tag if male + girly + anus solve that? Are there instances this tag would ever be used without either of those?

Way to miss the point, completely.

Ozelot said:
Way to miss the point, completely.

lol ikr.

NotMeNotYou said:
What is the point of the tag if male + girly + anus solve that? Are there instances this tag would ever be used without either of those?

I'm not talking about a tag. just the term. Just looking for peoples opinion on it.

Ozelot said:
Way to miss the point, completely.

He explains how the tag is supposed to be used and I'm trying to figure out why the tag is used in the first place.
It's nothing new that we get rid of redundant tags, or replace stupid terms with something that is better suited for the purpose.

NotMeNotYou said:
He explains how the tag is supposed to be used and I'm trying to figure out why the tag is used in the first place.
It's nothing new that we get rid of redundant tags, or replace stupid terms with something that is better suited for the purpose.

Nmny. I used the word "tag" one time. One time. and it was about the "girly" tag. pls. lets not focus on tags. I know that's kinda your thing but pls.

NotMeNotYou said:
He explains how the tag is supposed to be used and I'm trying to figure out why the tag is used in the first place.
It's nothing new that we get rid of redundant tags, or replace stupid terms with something that is better suited for the purpose.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CcSY19994xc

Beeseverywhere said:
Well, anyone who replaces y with an i should be destroyed in a very quick, yet highly painful way, so anything that means it's used less is a good idea.

This.

Xch3l said:
This.

yep. so far no one has contributed anything of value to this topic. I don't even think you and that bee's guy even read it. lol.

The_Diggler said:
yep. so far no one has contributed anything of value to this topic. I don't even think you and that bee's guy even read it. lol.

Tbh, I just read half of it. But having read it completely now, I don't really have a great opinion since I not into this. What I don't get is why have a specific name when it's still a male, but I can sorta get it with the reason that it's just a fetish...

Mah boi, this peace is what all true warriors strive for!

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The_Diggler said:
Now, when you are a fan of feminization/male humiliation or whatever you want to call it, it's a compliment to tell a "sissy boi" that he has a "boi pussy". It's the ultimate level of emasculation

I have no problem with people going around calling their assholes boy pussies, as long as they don't do it to me. I don't really agree with you that it would be a compliment. A way of feminizing/emasculating? Yes, but hardly a compliment. It's just a statement, it's how and with what adjectives you use that would make it a compliment, or simply dirty talk. On the contrary it's most likely (as you mention) seen as an insult by most men as they do not want to be compared to women just as little as women want to be compared to men. Just because a guy flaunts his ass, doesn't mean he wants people to call it a pussy.

The_Diggler said:
... To tell this male that his ass is in fact not an ass at all but just a variation of a pussy. It's part of the fetish and I think a lot of people, gays most of all imo, seem to not understand that and take offense to it.

The problem is that it is sometimes used outside of this fetish, which as mentioned may have the complete opposite effect of what was intended. And isn't most of the one's calling a guy's asshole a boy pussy, just that, gay? I mean sure there are other genders out there making guys bottom/submit, but still?

i didn't know anybody cared

The_Diggler said:
Nmny. I used the word "tag" one time. One time. and it was about the "girly" tag. pls. lets not focus on tags. I know that's kinda your thing but pls.

I didn't see your first reply, blame my phone for taking so long to type things out.

If it's not a tag discussion then I don't care what term people use while fucking girly boys, even though the terms itself is greatly stupid.

what did i just read

The_Diggler said:
yep. so far no one has contributed anything of value to this topic. I don't even think you and that bee's guy even read it. lol.

Because your topic has no merit.

From the way you're talking I gather you aren't a fan of femboy/girlyboys?
It sounds like you think because that term can be used on one man it should be used on all men. I tried to stress that I don't agree with that either. and as for it being a compliment. well, it is. to a femboy/girlyboy/trap or whatever. I've heard them refer to their ass as a pussy many times. Their proud of it.

That might be hard to comprehend as a person who isn't into it, but it's true.

"Just because a guy flaunts his ass, doesn't mean he wants people to call it a pussy." This is what leads me to believe your not getting where I'm coming from. I get this. I get what your saying. For example I think my ass is fucking magnificent but that doesn't mean it's some girly ass. It's a manly mans ass and I'm proud of it! Buuut when a femboy flaunts it, they want to be thought of as feminine. Take trans women for example. they may have a dick but they still say "this is my pussy" when their being dirty.

and yeah it's used wrong a LOT but I think people should keep in mind that while all femboy/male = gay but not all gay = fem. Their is a difference and I just think people don't get that. I hope that clears up what I'm trying to say.

Actinium-89 said:
Because your topic has no merit.

my topic was to hear your opinion. So you've just reassured me that your opinion has no merit. Good day.

Peekaboo said:
In my opinion, it's pretty dumb.
sure, calling a shitter a pussy is okidoki with me, but the boi part is just... bleh.

well to each his own I guess. I think it's pretty disgusting to call it a shitter while in the middle of sex. HAHA talk about an instant boner killer imo. But, why do you think it's dumb? just wondering?

Knotty_Curls said:
i didn't know anybody cared

I didn't either at one point but every time I hear it there's always this person saying how they don't like it. And I'm just thinking maybe they don't get how it's supposed to be used or something? or maybe I'm the one who's just dumb? :/

The_Diggler said:
From the way you're talking I gather you aren't a fan of femboy/girlyboys?

Can't really say it's on the top of my list, but not sure how that matters.

The_Diggler said:
It sounds like you think because that term can be used on one man it should be used on all men. I tried to stress that I don't agree with that either.

I'm not really trying to argue with you, I'm simply giving what is probably the main reason people (outside the fetish) don't like the term (except for the "boy"/"boi" which won't get one any bonus points from me either). I believe that is what you asked for; reasons why "boi pussy" is frowned upon.

The_Diggler said:
and as for it being a compliment. well, it is. to a femboy/girlyboy/trap or whatever. I've heard them refer to their ass as a pussy many times. Their proud of it.
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Take trans women for example. they may have a dick but they still say "this is my pussy" when their being dirty.
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I think people should keep in mind that while all femboy/male = gay but not all gay = fem. Their is a difference and I just think people don't get that. I hope that clears up what I'm trying to say.

I also think I explained that some people don't make such distinctions, and hence use the term "boi pussy" when there is no indication of such terms being wanted, usually only having the effect of causing the term to be even more frowned upon.

Also, you seem to be doing similar generalizations as I apparently did; a femboy does not have to be gay, nor will all mtf identify in the way you describe. You can be a totally straight femboy, it's just like the "you're gay if you like anal" stereotype. I recently said that it's bad to assume things, and it applies here to.

I can give you a slightly more personal opinion as well: I find the term both strange and silly, it's one of those things that if someone actually said to me I would start laughing at them, or maybe frown at them. It also makes me think of guys who think they are straight just because they sleep with a femboy with a "boi pussy" and not a "man". For people not into feminization I don't really see how it would be enjoyable words, at all. I don't want to be compared to a woman, not because of any "gender equality stuff", but simply because I'm not a woman, and doing such a comparison just feels really, really strange. I would never use such a term unless explicitly asked to, simply because I don't want it done to me.

I'm also not sure why I'm even getting involved in this discussion... It's a mystery as I don't like discussing gender or equality related topics... Maybe I'm just suffering from sleep depravation...

Chessax said:

well thanks for sharing what you think about it.

I get that some people think it's stupid and that's ok. I think the overly sized dicks in the furry fandom is stupid but that's almost everywhere. It seems like the ones getting offended take it personally to their gender. but I really just don't think the fetish goes that deep honestly.

Ya know I don't really think this was a discussion on gender equality. more on just what people think about a fetish. I'm still gonna use "boi pussy" when I see a trap or something. and I'm sure some jerk off is gonna tell me to stfu. but whateves. It's the internet and just like assholes, everyone has an opinion :)

The_Diggler said:
It seems like the ones getting offended take it personally to their gender.
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Ya know I don't really think this was a discussion on gender equality. more on just what people think about a fetish.

Nothing unusual for people to do really. If you e.g. refer to a person by the wrong gender and all hell may break loose, doesn't even have to be a transgender.

And I know, sorry, I sort of took that the gender path myself, but it's slightly related.

The_Diggler said:
I'm still gonna use "boi pussy" when I see a trap or something. and I'm sure some jerk off is gonna tell me to stfu. but whateves. It's the internet and just like assholes, everyone has an opinion :)
or should I say boi pussy? eh? eh?... no i shouldn't. lol

That's perfectly fine, as long as you're not gonna act like an obnoxious boi pussy ;), although I bet that if you spell it out properly, i.e. "boy pussy", only that is probably going to be make you more well received, I'm a "grammar nazi in hiding", so I know :P.

I like booty

TheHuskyK9 said:
I like booty

Prove it.

Ozelot said:
Prove it.

*husky starts singing I like big butts.*

Ozelot said:
Prove it.

This was the first thing I made when we put Sets on the site and this is currently in my playlist :V

TheHuskyK9 said:
I like booty

so you like tujamo - booty bounce?