Topic: Breakups

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How do you guys deal with them? I really need advice on this (Before hand, I'm sorry if this stuff is inappropriate for the site, I just need to hear any help)

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Kaijudragon567 said:
How do you guys deal with them? I really need advice on this (Before hand, I'm sorry if this stuff is inappropriate for the site, I just need to hear any help)

There is nothing you can do really about them,
you can just grief, then get over with it.
I suggest to get over it, and try again.

I'm not good at this, as I kinda the lost my trust in love
and have issues with them now...
like not caring for it anymore, but that just me.

Don't be like me, do what you need to do
to be happy again, sometimes a taking a break is better
and later when you are fully rested and ready again to find that right person.
Hopefully it's the right one for you, and wish you good luck.

Updated by anonymous

I'm required by law to state that homicide is not an acceptable reaction to heartbreak.

Just throwing that out there.

Updated by anonymous

Here's how you breakup, in great detail:

"Hey, sorry but, it ain't working out between us."
"Cool, yous a bitch anyway."
"Oh ok."

The End

Updated by anonymous

Never been the one broken up with. I'd assume you just suffer until you're over it.

Updated by anonymous

Be sad over it for a while, cry if you need to, but don't dwell on it for too long or you'll be stuck in the past for longer than you'd like. Find a hobby to get your mind off it and move on with your life.
Also don't talk to them again, at least not until you're over it.

Updated by anonymous

I can't see the problem with ending a relationship. There's so much more to do in life. Just do another one later, or don't. It's not like any particular one is all that important. It only feels important in the moment because it's what you're used to. Years later, you won't remember why you cared so much. Just think of that future perspective and relax. Take the time you were previously devoting to interacting with one person, and do something else interesting with it. You won't miss it much after a bit.

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the internet probably isn't a good source of advice for this topic. :/

Corniscopic said:
Also don't talk to them again, at least not until you're over it.

actually, this is probably a bit of advice anyone would give.

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Corniscopic said:
move on with your life.

That's like telling a person with depression "Cheer up".

Corniscopic said:
Also don't talk to them again, at least not until you're over it.

Depends. If they treat you like shit, yeah don't talk to them. If they don't want to talk with you or the other way around, don't talk.
Nobody's going to teach you how to "go through this".
Talk with someone close. Parent, friend, doesn't have to be BFF or sth. Let out what is inside you.

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Zachinsky said:
Let out what is inside you.

If I had did that I'd pretty much would end up in jail. The things I had experienced with my past rel. was horrendous.

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