Topic: Opinion on transformation?

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I've deleted the original post because I don't want any to get any more people angry. I'm sorry. Not about deleting the original post, but for angering some people. You have my sincerest apologies. I meant no ill will or trolling when making my original post.

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whats the point of these threads? and why you keep making these if you are aware that it makes people angry?

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hiekkapillu said:
whats the point of these threads? and why you keep making these if you are aware that it makes people angry?

wellllll to be fair i don't think there's anything wrong with discussions like this and i don't think they're against the rules sooooo idk

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BlackLicorice said:
wellllll to be fair i don't think there's anything wrong with discussions like this and i don't think they're against the rules sooooo idk

yeah and? i was asking whats the point of these threads and why op keeps posting these essays if they know that its gonna upset people. also honestly this is starting to seem borderline baiting to me to come on forums to make multiple threads to publicly list what they dislike about some fetishes.

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To me, it seems painful.
Remember growing pains as a kid? Transformation is like 500x the speed of growing pains, so that means 500x more painful.

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Blacktail51 said:
I'm personally not a fan of these other categories I've made here: accidental, forced, object or "you're a part of me" transformation. I'll try to explain these and my reasoning for my dislike for them as best I can.

Accidental: A guy unknowingly drinks a potion and turns into a woman. I wouldn't mind it if he intentionally drank the potion, but I just don't like it when it's accidental.

Forced: A guy is forced to turn into a woman. Someone binds him and forces an elixir down his throat, turning him into a woman. Once again, I'd like it if the victim in this scenario transformed himself intentionally but, being forced to do it is even worse in my book.

Object: Simple. Being transformed into an object. Like, I've seen, for example, a condom or a sex toy. It bothers me because, at least from what we see, there's usually no undoing the transformation. Artists usually just leave it at, "Welp, I guess you're a dildo now," and there's no undoing the transformation. You're just stuck as this item now. It just bothers me immensely.

"You're a part of me": Basically being transformed into a penis or some other body part, but it's usually a penis. Once again, this relates to my previous example, how do you come back from this? Are you stuck as a penis forever? Are you still sentient? Is the urethra your mouth and do you feel the cum coming out of your mouth like you're vomiting?

I imagine the reasoning for most, if not all of these, is about dominance. I have explained in my "vore" post that I dislike dominance in my porn. Under certain circumstance, I do enjoy dominance (Like if a dominant character is forced to be submissive and is thusly turned into the sub by the previous sub), but for the most part, I hate it.

A lot of you will say that I think about these things too much and you're completely right. I do. Maybe that's why these things bug me. I just have to accept them and move on, but I can't.

This is how I read your post. While I hope you are actually seeking a honest discussion here; The way you worded this, and the fact you just recently made a similar post makes me think that this is just a very well worded: "I don't like this kink." complaint.

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Blacktail51 said:
A lot of you will say that I think about these things too much and you're completely right. I do. Maybe that's why these things bug me. I just have to accept them and move on, but I can't. These things will just nag at me forever unless I address them. I'm always thinking about the specifics of fetishes.

To quote ratte: "Man you have some weird anxieties"

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hiekkapillu said:
whats the point of these threads? and why you keep making these if you are aware that it makes people angry?

BlackLicorice said:
wellllll to be fair i don't think there's anything wrong with discussions like this and i don't think they're against the rules sooooo idk

I'm pretty sure trolling is against the rules, and this looks like trolling to me.

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I'm a big fan of transformation - in particular, human-to-anthro/feral transformation, and male-to-female transformation.

I would, perhaps, explain why I like these but I don't see any reason to considering you state outright you don't even have any reason why you're asking this in the first place, so if you don't care why should I bother explaining?

For the record, I'm not annoyed at you, you just seem not to care so I don't see any reason not to be equally apathetic myself.

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hiekkapillu said:
whats the point of these threads? and why you keep making these if you are aware that it makes people angry?

As I said in my post, I don't know why I'm making these posts. I know I'll make some people angry, I understand that. You are free to say what you will and move on. I guess, if anything, I'm making these posts to give my opinion? That, to me, doesn't seem right, but that's the only reason I can think as to why I'm making these posts. Also, at the end, I said what I was up all night and very tired, so, maybe that's why.

Long story short: I don't know why.

BlackLicorice said:
wellllll to be fair i don't think there's anything wrong with discussions like this and i don't think they're against the rules sooooo idk

Thanks for defending me. As said, I don't understand why I'm making these posts either.

hiekkapillu said:
yeah and? i was asking whats the point of these threads and why op keeps posting these essays if they know that its gonna upset people. also honestly this is starting to seem borderline baiting to me to come on forums to make multiple threads to publicly list what they dislike about some fetishes.

I honestly don't know what the point is. I have no point. And I completely understand if it upsets people, if someone said something negative about something I liked, I'd get upset too. You we're completely free to move along and not acknowledge this post entirely.
Also, please don't think that's why I'm doing this. Yes, I'm stating that I dislike this fetish, not completely, but mostly. But I'm not attacking those who do enjoy this fetish, I never wanted to make it seem like that's my intent for these posts and I'm sorry if that's what it seemed like.

Chaser said:
To me, it seems painful.
Remember growing pains as a kid? Transformation is like 500x the speed of growing pains, so that means 500x more painful.

I hated growing pains, so I can see where you're coming from. In a pornographic perspective, I don't think the transformation process would be painful. Most artists depict the transformation as being somewhere between somewhat painful to completely painless, at least from what I've seen.

Kodanis said:
This is how I read your post. While I hope you are actually seeking a honest discussion here; The way you worded this, and the fact you just recently made a similar post makes me think that this is just a very well worded: "I don't like this kink." complaint.

I am. I am seeking an honest discussion. I'm incredibly sorry if I seemed like I was complaining for throwing shade or anything like that. That was not the way I intended my little rant to go. I was trying to convey that I dislike these aspects of transformation, and wondered about the thoughts of those who do enjoy it. Like, the "you're a part of me" one. I genuinely would like to understand that one. Again, I'm very sorry.

Kodanis said:
To quote ratte: "Man you have some weird anxieties"

Yes, I do.

Kodanis said:
I'm pretty sure trolling is against the rules, and this looks like trolling to me.

Please, I never intended this to be trolling. I never intended the last one to be trolling nor this one. I was stating my thoughts on the subject and asked those who enjoy it, their thoughts on the matter. I was very much enlightened with the responses I've received on the previous post and thanked those who responded. Again, I'm infinitely sorry if I seemed arrogant, trollish or like an asshole.

Clawdragons said:
I'm a big fan of transformation - in particular, human-to-anthro/feral transformation, and male-to-female transformation.

I would, perhaps, explain why I like these but I don't see any reason to considering you state outright you don't even have any reason why you're asking this in the first place, so if you don't care why should I bother explaining?

For the record, I'm not annoyed at you, you just seem not to care so I don't see any reason not to be equally apathetic myself.

Thank you for your thoughts. Despite the wording of my post, I do genuinely want to hear others' opinions. I was very tired when I wrote this and words just sorta sputtered onto the screen.

I do very much care. It seems like my first post just seemed like complaining and me not giving a shit about what I was writing about. I've re-read it and can completely see where everyone is coming from. I'd think I was a trollish asshole too if I read that post. But, that was never my intention. I'm very sorry to those who thought that there was malice towards transformation and me not giving two shits about responses. Receiving thoughts and responses about this particular fetish is why I made this, I guess. Similar to the last one I made, I just want to hear thoughts on it.

TL;DR: I'm incredibly sorry for my wording in my first post. I never wanted to seem like a troll, an asshole or make it seem like I didn't care. I do. I just wanted to hear others' on their opinions and learn a little about this fetish. Please, feel free to say what you will. I genuinely hope I cleared up all of the confusion towards my first post. Thank you for reading and sorry again for the incredibly long post.

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Blacktail51 said:
You we're completely free to move along and not acknowledge this post entirely.

Why do you expect people to "move along and not acknowledge" these posts when you're not willing to "move along and not acknowledge" images that aren't aimed at your particular kinks? Instead you're making these long rambling threads that boil down to "I don't like it and I don't see why other people would like it." Like, welcome to human sexuality. There's a billion kinks out there you won't "get" if you're not into yourself, do we really need a thread on every one of them?

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I don't like it, but I wish artists would cut the picture featuring multiple moments of a transformation in pieces, because individual "frames" can be terrific.

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hanzai said:
Why do you expect people to "move along and not acknowledge" these posts when you're not willing to "move along and not acknowledge" images that aren't aimed at your particular kinks? Instead you're making these long rambling threads that boil down to "I don't like it and I don't see why other people would like it." Like, welcome to human sexuality. There's a billion kinks out there you won't "get" if you're not into yourself, do we really need a thread on every one of them?

Out of everything I wrote to explain myself, that's the part that stuck with you? Again, I'm sorry for saying what I said. The thing is, I AM trying to acknowledge these fetishes that I don't enjoy. That was my entire reason for making this forum post in the first place. Instead of 'I don't like it and I don't see why other people would like it.' It's more like: 'I don't like it, please educate me on why you do, so maybe I can see things from your angle.' That's what I wanted to convey and I'm sorry for doing a poor job in doing so.

And to answer your final question, no, we don't. I just made another one because the first went so smoothly. I got amicable responses and learned from them. I won't lie when I say I expected this to go down a similar route. Again, I'm very sorry for what I have said.

Needless to say, I will refrain from making forum posts like this in the future. I figured that after the first one went so well, I'd make another. I did not picture it going like this. And, it honestly hurts me; nothing anyone else has said, but what I'VE said. I'm extremely self-conscious about what I say and I feel, no, KNOW that I've angered some people and I hate myself for doing that. So again, I will refrain from making any posts like these in the future and hope that those who thought I was being an asshole can forgive me.

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Never really got the appeal, especially sexually. But I agree with chaser, a lot of it just looks painful.

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