I’ve noticed a lot of things that should be tagged as herm or whatever the new term y’all use for dickgirl is, but is still tagged as female and I’m wondering if there is a way to lock certain tags to not be possible. Like say if you have “female” and “solo” tag you can’t tag penis or something. I mean I don’t see uhhh are they called andromorphs now? I don’t see those tagged as males. Haha this is my first forum pls don’t be mean to me if I did something stupid

Even if there were such a system, female + solo does not necessarily have to exclude penis. Suppose, a comic/sequence with a single character that has a penis in some parts of the sequence, but not others.
A system that tries to add new tags based on existing combinations will never work because of edge-cases like this. crossgender + bowser doesn't have to be bowsette_meme, human + anthro doesn't have to be interspecies, and so on.

Moderators can lock tags so that they're always (or never) included in a post, but this is done on a per-post basis. If there's edit warring over gender tags on a certain post, report the post with "Tagging Abuse". If it's just the same user mistagging on multiple images, report them instead.

I see two examples in your tagging history.
One of them was a genuine mistag, the other was tagged female pseudo-penis and had been left that way by at least one admin who'd seen the post.
I dunno if that's a lot. Got any other examples?

People do occasionally mistag gender, but it's usually pretty simple to fix.

If it's just that it's affecting your search results or blacklisting, you could try searching for "female solo -penis" or blacklisting "female solo penis."