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Being insulted by the dom-
Why would you want to be talked down to? I understand the appeal of being dommed but being insulted? Gives me a massive inverse boner.
If you're into it feel free to explain and maybe I could understand it better. My best assumption is it's just one of those "thrill" things like scat/watersports/etc
godofcringe said:
Being insulted by the dom-Why would you want to be talked down to? I understand the appeal of being dommed but being insulted? Gives me a massive inverse boner.
If you're into it feel free to explain and maybe I could understand it better. My best assumption is it's just one of those "thrill" things like scat/watersports/etc
Kinks can't be explained.
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Not into it, but as an outside observer I'd just toss it in with all the other humilation stuff. Some folks get off on humiliation and degradation, brains are jus wired to enjoy it like yours is to enjoy what you enjoy.
Also not into it, but I think I can understand it. We have the physical side of domination: size difference, muscle difference, age difference, predator/prey, etc. Then there is the emotional/physological side of domination: humiliation, status difference (rich/poor), experience difference (shy/extrovert), etc.
It all comes down to one simply thing, to feel at the mercy of someone's else will, and some people like the idea of being told what to do/how to behave.
azero said:
Also not into it, but I think I can understand it. We have the physical side of domination: size difference, muscle difference, age difference, predator/prey, etc. Then there is the emotional/physological side of domination: humiliation, status difference (rich/poor), experience difference (shy/extrovert), etc.It all comes down to one simply thing, to feel at the mercy of someone's else will, and some people like the idea of being told what to do/how to behave.
I totally get the "mercy of someone else's will"
I think gentle doms are hot af
"the inner machinations (of the human mind) are an enigma" is a true statement I guess
godofcringe said:
"the inner machinations (of the human mind) are an enigma" is a true statement I guess
Doing my rare forum check-in and adding a bit of oddball perspective if I can;
munkelzahn said:
Kinks can't be explained.
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Well obviously this is the best, most concise answer, no doubt. But...
I think you should try looking at it from a roleplay perspective first, rather than a literal one. A small percent of people might like being completely degraded by someone else, of course. Though it's more likely they enjoy hearing it in a non-consequential way- Just like a lot of people might be into hard-vore, but don't actually care to pursue it irl, for obvious reasons.
Or, an inverted but maybe more relatable example, shooting the shit out of your friends in an fps and still having the option of *actually being friends* later
A while back I did realize there are a couple characters I might "get into" more, if ""we"" were mutually insulting each other during sex, even if a minute later it reverted back to normal making out, etc.
tl;dr "in your fantasies you can do things that might not be advisable in real life", so maybe don't take it too seriously?
Freudian psychoanalysis is the key.
You can not understand any kink unless you first understand why you have your own. Once you've examined your own and can see from whence it came and why it appeals to you, then you can look at other people's kinks and extrapolate how and why theirs appeals to them. But you also need to set aside feelings of shame first so you can examine your kinks objectively and without judgement.
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