Topic: Thoughts on incest

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Hi I want to know peoples thoughts on incest. Is it hot? Obviously everyone will have different opinions and that’s okay I am just curious on what others think about it.
I for one think it’s very hot in fantasy but would not do it in real life.
What are your thoughts?

potato17 said:
Can you explain what you mean?

It's just very off-putting. I prefer to imagine the parties having sex in an image as a romantic couple, not family. I won't favorite a picture that I otherwise like if it's incest.

terminally_horny said:
I love it a lot. I love the idea that people can love each other so much that they put aside all societal taboos and just go where their hearts take them. There is also a lust aspect to it. They just let their bodies and raw emotions take over and do what feels right.

I completely agree.

I'd say in general, it's hot. But mainly because of the social taboo of it. Because otherwise, it's just two people fucking who look a lot alike.

vulpes_artifex said:
Ruins a picture for me.

Same here!
Learnt the hard way by playing nekopara.

I don’t know how to explain the feeling. Pleasure being suddenly cut dead in it’s tracks by dread, disgust and repulsion.
Like pulling out and noticing blood on your dick.

I can’t get used to it.

The thing is: I don’t know why I have such a harsh aversion to incest.
I want to figure it out.
Was it taught to me? Is it an innate, subconscious fear rooted in instincts? Is it societal peer-pressuring, the taboo surrounding it? Is it a normal reflex? Does the illegal aspect of incest scare me away?

Instead of criticising people for having this fetish, I want to understand why it repulses me so much.

Can anyone else with a similar reaction explain why they react the way they do?

I think for fiction it's OK and hot, much like other things - not so much when it comes to real life.

dimoretpinel said:
Same here!
Learnt the hard way by playing nekopara.

I don’t know how to explain the feeling. Pleasure being suddenly cut dead in it’s tracks by dread, disgust and repulsion.
Like pulling out and noticing blood on your dick.

I can’t get used to it.

The thing is: I don’t know why I have such a harsh aversion to incest.
I want to figure it out.
Was it taught to me? Is it an innate, subconscious fear rooted in instincts? Is it societal peer-pressuring, the taboo surrounding it? Is it a normal reflex? Does the illegal aspect of incest scare me away?

Instead of criticising people for having this fetish, I want to understand why it repulses me so much.

Can anyone else with a similar reaction explain why they react the way they do?

I feel that familial love and romantic/erotic love are very different kinds of love, and to mix them up cheapens them both. Furthermore, since incest carries a high risk of “defective” (for lack of a better term) offspring, it is inherently an “incomplete” form of sex. Combined, these two factors make incest repulsive to me.

I only find it hot when it's in furry porn, while the whole step- porn trend makes me cringe hard, let alone the real thing.

I'm weird like that.

vulpes_artifex said:
I feel that familial love and romantic/erotic love are very different kinds of love, and to mix them up cheapens them both. Furthermore, since incest carries a high risk of “defective” (for lack of a better term) offspring, it is inherently an “incomplete” form of sex. Combined, these two factors make incest repulsive to me.

So is gaycest better?

kinestae said:
So is gaycest better?

Well, it’s still a perversion of familial love. Besides, despite being bisexual, I’m not really into gay porn proper. I like solo male stuff, solo female stuff, and male/female stuff, but give me two of any sex and I’m not that into it. Maybe because I’m heteroromantic? Whatever.

Depends on how believable it is.

In real porn:
Pathetic with western stuff since it's basically a clickbait gimmick and they don't even have the balls to go all the way (it's all step__ stuff).
It can be nice in Japanese stuff since they actually give some amount of shits about verisimilitude and story.

Drawn:
I like it. Not particularly appealing to me, but usually not unwelcome.
It usually adds to whatever's going on, though incest's presence gives the fantasy a certain "flavour".

dimoretpinel said:

The thing is: I don’t know why I have such a harsh aversion to incest.
I want to figure it out.
Was it taught to me? Is it an innate, subconscious fear rooted in instincts? Is it societal peer-pressuring, the taboo surrounding it? Is it a normal reflex? Does the illegal aspect of incest scare me away?

Part of it is probably societal. But I'm like 99% sure there's a biological component too. Inbreeding means the accumulation of deleterious mutations after all.
There are animals/insects which actually prefer related mates as well!

vulpes_artifex said:
Well, it’s still a perversion of familial love. Besides, despite being bisexual, I’m not really into gay porn proper. I like solo male stuff, solo female stuff, and male/female stuff, but give me two of any sex and I’m not that into it. Maybe because I’m heteroromantic? Whatever.

Diet gay.

I personally think it's off-putting and it says to me "I can't find love outside my own family" but to each their own. I think I share the reasons for hating it with those who have already posted - it increases the possibility of inheriting mutations, and familial love isn't the same as sexual lust.

If you want to enjoy artistic depictions of it, that's weird but fine I guess.

vulpes_artifex said:
Well, it’s still a perversion of familial love. Besides, despite being bisexual, I’m not really into gay porn proper. I like solo male stuff, solo female stuff, and male/female stuff, but give me two of any sex and I’m not that into it. Maybe because I’m heteroromantic? Whatever.

I'm bi myself; however, I do not like anal (straight or gay), but frotting and kissing turns me on.

I mean, as long as we're just talking about art, then I don't care. If it's too gross I'll look away. But I take issue with IRL examples

I used to have a pretty visceral internal reaction to it because I auto completed it to having relations with my own direct family, to whom I'm not attracted in that way. But then I read someone justifying it to themselves as ”well, it's not MY family..” and that flipped it around for me.

Ever since I've been able to enjoy a setting/subject loose from my own sentiments and just observe characters eb and flow through their own motives and desires. From that perspective incest is quite fun.

I can look past it if it's just lore tags, but if they start dropping the hard Mom/Dad in the dirty talk I gotta click off. 🤣

iwasnthere said:
I can look past it if it's just lore tags, but if they start dropping the hard Mom/Dad in the dirty talk I gotta click off. 🤣

this seems like a good time to mention that I started the stated incest tag recently and could use help populating it.

iwasnthere said:
I can look past it if it's just lore tags, but if they start dropping the hard Mom/Dad in the dirty talk I gotta click off. 🤣

Yeah. Maybe it is being an only child, I find siblings or, say, cousins, or simply individuals who look potentially related (stated / implied_incest) interacting less off-putting in artwork or story, than when a parent is involved; too much control / potential abuse issues there.

Nothing makes me want to run for the hills more than 'mother, may I ?'

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dimoretpinel said:
Can a TWYS tag imply a lore tag? It would be easier on blacklists if stated incest implied incest (lore)

Characters can lie or be mistaken, or use an interpretation that doesn't match e6. e.g. a character mentioning having sex with their parent, where it's an adoptive (non-blood-related) parent. That would be stated_incest, but not incest_(lore) since it's not a blood relative.

Hot. Also I have never understood why it is regarded so negatively. The only way it's different from other types of sex is an astronomically small chance of genetic defects, and that's mostly besides the point since sex is not necessarily reproductive.

potato17 said:
Hi I want to know peoples thoughts on incest. Is it hot? Obviously everyone will have different opinions and that’s okay I am just curious on what others think about it.
I for one think it’s very hot in fantasy but would not do it in real life.
What are your thoughts?

Obviously, in real life I find it disgusting and morally wrong. In hentai though it's easily in my top 5 fetishes lmao

Hard no.

I'm not completely sure why I find it so revolting, but it's partially related to the fact that I find real life incest the be morally wrong. Also why I don't like rape or stuff with minors. It's too much for me, really.

if there is wincest, is there losecest? failcest?

supina said:
Hot. Also I have never understood why it is regarded so negatively. The only way it's different from other types of sex is an astronomically small chance of genetic defects, and that's mostly besides the point since sex is not necessarily reproductive.

afaik people mostly end up with an innate revulsion to having sex with people they grew up around. siblings, parents, etc. your brain wiring tells you "no!" with little conscious decision involved.

personally i dislike and avoid it but can overlook it to some degree in some cartoon porn, as long as the dialogue doesn't hammer it home constantly

In real life? Consanguinity is a crime against the unborn who will have to bear the consequences, non-consensual incest is an even more extreme violation than other kinds of sexual assault, and consensual incest is tragic as well as wrong because of the loss and destruction of the relationship that was corrupted into that.

In art? Who cares, they're not real. You could scribble "brother" and "sister" on any random m/f picture then erase it and put "father" and "daughter", and it doesn't mean anything, in the same way that a wiki page saying a character is 17 or 250 doesn't mean anything. Though incest-related dialogue is usually a cringefest, but then that's true of most attempts at dialogue in porn.

Real life? Just no. In art? It can be a fun kinky porn trope, but it's not something I actively search for.

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