Topic: What Body Type are Women Attracted to?

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What bodytypes are women attracted to? What body type are you attracted to presonally? Why?

Please only answer if your a girl I don't really see the point in theorising from guys.

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Acolyte said:
Girls, on average, like muscular men.

According to the article, that's just for short-term relationships ("fun").
Women looking for something more long-term are usually attracted to fat wallets and/or power.

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Munkelzahn said:
According to the article, that's just for short-term relationships ("fun").
Women looking for something more long-term are usually attracted to fat wallets and/or power.

Whenever I hear a guy ask OP's question, they're usually looking for fun. But it's not totally true that women that want real relationships only want rich or powerful men.

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Adrian_Blazevic said:
morbidly obese

No, don't… don't hurt the wanker.
He's just trying to figure it all out.

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It depends on the girl. I for one like femme boys. Muscles turn me off. A smooth toned body is nice. Moneys always a plus. But a guy who knows how to treat me right loves me and takes care of / putsnup with my crazy quirks will always get my vote. Also...I HATE players. My last bf was one...nearly destroyed me trying to put up with the amount of girls he slept with. So never again...

So anyway. all depends on the girl.

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Esme_Belles said:
Also...I HATE players.

Hey, don't hate the player, hate the game.
Kidding. I don't like players either. Female players, that is, since I'm a guy.

Female players, you ask? You know, a beautiful girl with a bunch of guys that she strings along, getting rides, cash, gifts… whatever. She keeps the guys just on the brink of thinking they have a chance, when she knows they have no chance in hell…

Not quite the same as a gold-digger. Probably a notch down.

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Esme_Belles said:
all depends on the girl.

Pretty much this, actually this applies to everyone. And I'm not a girl, I'm a lady <_< heh, no, just kidding, came to say that n_n

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therabbidwanker said:
What bodytypes are women attracted to? What body type are you attracted to presonally? Why?

Esme_Belles said:

So anyway. all depends on the girl.

TRW, I'm gonna give you the best advice on this. It was given to me and I'm gonna pass it on to you.

First off, you're doing this wrong. You're asking a small sampling of women (females on this site) what they want in a guy.
If you ask this question to the general public, most women are gonna tell you "it all depends on girl." And for the most part, they're right.

But in truth, there is an AVERAGE type of guy that the majority of women (in industrialized nations, I assume you're in one) are attracted to.

It's impossible to predict what ONE woman might want in a guy. But if you take a larger sampling of women, 1,000, or 5,000, or 10,000 a clear pattern emerges.

Go online and look at women's answers to this question. You're going to see an overall preference in regards to body type, attitude, income, style, personality. And if you really want to begin attracting women overall, you can start to style your own personal characteristics based upon the pattern you see.

All throughout high-school, I never had girls interested in me. After getting info from a large sampling of women from a men's mag, it turns out I was too shy and introverted. Where there are some girls that like that, the MAJORITY of girls do not. So I can tell you firsthand that when I addressed that personal characteristic, I began to attract more girls and I eventually found one to stick with.

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Everyone seems to think I'm trying to get girls or that I just started working out or something, I'm not, I was just interested to see, since there seems to be an extremely standardised image of the ideal woman, but less so of the ideal man, or maybe that's just my perception;

Adrian_Blazevic said:
morbidly obese

Acolyte said:
No, don't… don't hurt the wanker.
He's just trying to figure it all out.

I can't really have a go at you for being a snarky asshole, because I AM a snarky asshole, but just to clarify I work out A LOT, I lift weights for an hour, then run at least a mile, come home and work the bag for half an hour; everyday, I USED to be a fatass, but not anymore.

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I lift weights for an hour, then run at least a mile, come home and work the bag for half an hour; everyday, I USED to be a fatass, but not anymore.

before/after pix or it didn't happen

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therabbidwanker said:
What bodytypes are women attracted to?

Munkelzahn said:
Women looking for something more long-term are usually attracted to fat wallets and/or power.

Fat wallets and power are now bodytypes.
/discuss

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therabbidwanker said:

I can't really have a go at you for being a snarky asshole, because I AM a snarky asshole, but just to clarify I work out A LOT, I lift weights for an hour, then run at least a mile, come home and work the bag for half an hour; everyday, I USED to be a fatass, but not anymore.

Formally obese but still a little obtuse. no one was calling you fat. AB just made a joke based on your original question, saying that women want men that are morbidly obese. you apparently didn't get the joke.

You're a bit high-strung dude. Perhaps you need to get laid.

Oh, wait...

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Before drama ensues and throws us back to the middleschool days, im going to bring us back on point. I for one prefer a smaller sized guy, being only 5'4 and 115lbs myself I find it incredibly awkward trying to be with someone over 5'8, trying to kiss and cuddle well... Its just awkward. As for build, superbuilt scares me, I dont like someone who cant at least try and maintain a decent figure, doesnt need to be a model by any means, just not a 500lb couch potato. For me looks are only a quarter of the package. Personality is a solid half cuz if the guy looks like brad pitt and is a prick then he might as well look like carrot top cuz it kills it all. And the other quarter is sexual and intimacy stuffs... nuff said.

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I usually don't talk in threads such as this but hey, why not?

First I'm not in any way a majority personality open a door for me I break your arm for being sexist, (kidding) but beside the point

When I look for a bf/gf I usually look for personality, compatibilty, then a reasonable appearance; nothing else really matters, although I do kinda like a few traits, dark hair, dark eyes, etc

Sorry this kinda isn't in theme with the thread, but body type just doesn't woo me

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Aurali said:
I like girly body types >.>

Woo! Aurali... I had no idea! :p

i do too

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Aurali said:
I like girly body types >.>

IvoryWolf said:
Woo! Aurali... I had no idea! :p

i do too

Test-Subject_217601 said:
Me three, sometimes. >.>

Well fuck.
There went my chances. Ahem, I mean-

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Munkelzahn said:
before/after pix or it didn't happen

Posting identifiable pictures of myself here, nope.

Acolyte said:
Formally obese but still a little obtuse. no one was calling you fat. AB just made a joke based on your original question, saying that women want men that are morbidly obese. you apparently didn't get the joke.

You're a bit high-strung dude. Perhaps you need to get laid.

Oh, wait...

I did I just wanted to clarify I'm proud of my body since I put a lot of work into it and I think I may have a very mild thyroid condition, it takes me a LONG time to lose weight but I'm getting through it.

Also virgin jokes, seriously?

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therabbidwanker said:

Also virgin jokes, seriously?

I think the intended joke was that they said "you need to get laid" But then "Oh wait... if you could get laid, you wouldn't be asking this."

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Girls are made to be attracted to zombiefied douchebags that replaced their gray matter with steroids, just like they're made playing with puppets, or how boys are made to play with cars and robots, or to replace their gray matter with steroids.

Some hundredfifty years ago, people liked fat men and women, because that was a sign of wealth and health. In fifty years from now, I say, you're gonna have to follow EVERY diction given to you by iTrend.com if you want to have a partner, and there will be NO TOHER WAY!

That's at least what tehy want you to believe, of course.

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Vagabond said:
Girls are made to be attracted to zombiefied douchebags that replaced their gray matter with steroids, just like they're made playing with puppets, or how boys are made to play with cars and robots, or to replace their gray matter with steroids.

Some hundredfifty years ago, people liked fat men and women, because that was a sign of wealth and health. In fifty years from now, I say, you're gonna have to follow EVERY diction given to you by iTrend.com if you want to have a partner, and there will be NO TOHER WAY!

That's at least what tehy want you to believe, of course.

Clearly it hasn't worked.

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Steelswarm said:

Well fuck.
There went my chances. Ahem, I mean-

I know that feel, I'm rather athletic and too tall. oh well... the curse of an introvert.

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Oh it really is fun being a feminine guy.

Sorta. I get a lot of flack from people who think I'm gay (and that that's a bad thing), but I am proud of who I am.

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Valence said:
Oh it really is fun being a feminine guy.

Sorta. I get a lot of flack from people who think I'm gay (and that that's a bad thing), but I am proud of who I am.

Do women find you hawt?

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Most don't, really. 'Some' people do, my gf of course, but with the association of feminine guy → gay and having not really lived in the most lgbt-friendly location, I never really got much positive attention. Most of my fun stems from my gf.

Here at college, the situation is much better. Haven't really noticed too much interest, but I guess I don't go out much. There was one girl that quite rather liked me during that summer engineering program though.

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I honestly do not know how this happens but the ladies who hit on me tend to be of Mediterranean origin and more pate. Because of my Demisexuality I'm more into ladies who look up to me as a friend and slowly go from there, otherwise my parents might not like the girl I'm dating

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