I just thought I ask you all this question. What is your top 3 worst non-sexual turn offs?
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Mine would be...

1. Bad typing. I once was in a relationship were I had this girlfriend of mine who would do nothing but non stop text me. Now this would be fine if "Hr textin waz not lik this! u knw wat I saiyin?" It was really a big turn off, from bad spelling to not even spelling words out fully, using the letter 'u' instead of the word 'you', and not even adding g to 'ing'.

It was the worst non sexual turn off I have ever seen in my life. Its a shame as she wasn't stupid or anything, but her typin', spelling and grammar was terrible. 2. Lipstick. Now this may just be me, I grew up in a smoking house, my mother would smoke wearing lipstick and drink from glasses wearing lipstick....then ask me to pass her smoke covered in her lipstick or drink from a glass that had her lipstick marks on it. It honestly grosses me out. I once dated a woman who loved lipstick and heavy make out time, they did not mix well because afterwards I had more lipstick on my face then she did, not to mention any lip action I had to taste her lipstick which made me sick. Honestly if I wanted shit on my face, I would just go outside and eat mud and it would still taste better than lipstick. 3. Stupid people. Now I don't mean people who say some stupid things every now and then. I mean people "Who get upset because their dog doesn't speak like the one in the taco bell tv commercial, or people so dumb they think South Africa is part of the USA, like Miss South Carolina in 2007 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qQdhMSEqhfg This level of stupid is too far gone for me, without a good mind I don't care how good someone looks, they are utterly useless and a huge turn off in any relationship. --------------------- What are your worst top 3 non-sexual turn offs?

1.) Breathing

This may sound strange but I hate the sound of people breathing near me.

2.) People at room temperature.

And here start the problems.

NotMeNotYou said:
1.) Breathing

This may sound strange but I hate the sound of people breathing near me.

I know what you mean, I hate that too.

Anything that is not a melon turns me off

People that abuse animals

People who believe they can do no wrong because they go to church

Parents that believe their children are perfect little angels who can do nothing wrong

Conker said:
It was the worse non sexual turn off I have ever seen in my life. Its a shame as she wasn't stupid or anything, but her typing, spelling and grammar was terrible.

*worst
*It's
*were

I once dated a woman who loved lipstick and heavy make out time, they did not mix well because afterwords I had more lipstick on my face then she did, not to mention any lip action I had to taste her lipstick which made me sick.

*afterwards

I mean people "Who get upset because there dog doesn't speak like the one in the taco bell tv commercial, or people so dumb they think South Africa is part of the USA, like Miss South Carolina in 2007 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qQdhMSEqhfg

*their

Munkelzahn said:
*worst*It's*were*afterwards*their

I changed my post 3 times on subject matter, so typos are expected >.>

Laziness
Rudeness
Selfishness

I can't tolerate people with those traits

Stupidity
White knighting
Rudeness.

I just hate it.

1, skidmarks. It's just a hygiene issue if you're still wearing your business and it wipes off on your underwear all day. It doesn't make me want to play down there when I see that. lol

2. shallowness. Appearances are important, but only to a point. If their whole world and their every concern revolves around superficial and non-important factors then I really could not be any less interested in them.

3, drama king/queen. People who create drama, can't seem to live without it. Tells me they're bored, not bothering to fill their life with actual challenges and accomplishments. So it's a turn off on multiple different levels.

4, arrogance. I think because it's clear they're more interested in themselves than they are in you. If there's no room for partnership then what's the point of even dating. They might as well date a mirror and skip the pretense.

5, posering. I find genuine honesty a turn on. So its polar opposite is a total turn off. They might be a douchebag, but pretending they're a great person on top of that only compounds the problem. I can at least respect someone who's honest about being an asshole sometimes. After all, no one's a angel. But acting like something they're not, honestly who does it fool?

Oh my fucking God, where do I start?
1. People who swing on willow tree branches even after being told to stop multiple times. Seriously. I have these big, beautiful willow trees behind my house and the kids are always swinging on it.

2. People that tailgate drivers when there's no reason to. For fuck's sake, stop riding our bumper. If we want something on our bumper, we'll buy an Airstream.

3. People that don't turn off their cellphones at a movie theater and TAKE IT OUT DURING A DARK SCENE. I mean, good God, what the hell is wrong with those people?

Being religiously assertive

Misusing "your"

Interrupting me when I'm spe "HI THERE"

JoeX said:
2. People that tailgate drivers when there's no reason to. For fuck's sake, stop riding my bumper.

You don't even drive.

1: People with superiority issues, those douchebag people that feel like the center of the universe.

2: Weird noises when eating.

3: Smoking.

furrypickle said:
1, skidmarks. It's just a hygiene issue if you're still wearing your business and it wipes off on your underwear all day. It doesn't make me want to play down there when I see that. lol

That could be classed as sexual, try another number 1.

Conker said:
That could be classed as sexual, try another number 1.

It's only sexual for the few people who kink on that. Obviously, I don't. So for me it's not sexual in the least. Not the first sometimes-it's-a-kink listed here either. The sound of someone breathing is a huge turn on to some people. So's smoking. And so is lipstick.

However, since none of them are solely or intrinsically sexual. And since the context is how the person loses a boner instead of gains one, I think it's safe to say they're not sexual in this context. Sometimes does not equal always.

1. Incorrect usage of your/you're
2. Incorrect usage of to/too/two
3. Incorrect usage of their/they're/there

Halite said:
1. Incorrect usage of your/you're
2. Incorrect usage of to/too/two
3. Incorrect usage of their/they're/there

They're is nothing wrong with that, your just not being flexible about it. If people want too corrupt there ability two form grammatically-correct sentences, their going to do it weather you like it or not anyway

titaniachkt said:
They're is nothing wrong with that, your just not being flexible about it. If people want too corrupt there ability two form grammatically-correct sentences, their going to do it weather you like it or not anyway

It's not grammar, it's vocabulary.
Grammar is how sentences are formed, using the wrong words is bad vocabulary.

titaniachkt said:
They're is nothing wrong with that, your just not being flexible about it. If people want too corrupt there ability two form grammatically-correct sentences, their going to do it weather you like it or not anyway

/slap

3 Giant turn-offs for me
1. Unbalanced relationships (you know complete male/female domination of a relationship instead of some kind of balance, In conkers case this may hit straight at home.)
2. Not caring about anything/ being apathetic
3. Hardcore drug addiction....yeah...

1. Everyone in life.
2. Myself.
3. Everything that isn't a melon.

titaniachkt said:
They're is nothing wrong with that, your just not being flexible about it. If people want too corrupt there ability two form grammatically-correct sentences, their going to do it weather you like it or not anyway

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8KgqNGPGflA&t=8s

1) Faces
2) Bodies
3) Limbs

1: inhumane treatment of others
2: stupid
3: screaming

Moon_Moon said:
1. Unbalanced relationships (you know complete male/female domination of a relationship instead of some kind of balance, In conkers case this may hit straight at home.)

I am not sure what you are talking about as I have a very healthy balanced relationship. Just because one person is more submissive then the other does not make the relationship unbalanced. I actually have the most balanced relationship out there, we both give and take in our own ways, its rather balanced indeed. All humans in one way or another are unbalanced, and we balance each other our perfectly. I fear you know nothing of a true healthily relationship to understand that.

Conker said:
I have a very healthy balanced relationship.

Conker said:
very healthy balanced relationship.

Conker said:
very healthy

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TheHuskyK9 said:
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:3 lol

1. glasses
I have yet to meet someone who looks better WITH glasses than without. They are a HUGE turn off for me. If my eyes are well enough I always wear contacts.

2. being unscientific
Horoscopes, superstition, religion.
Makes my blood boil, but at least I learned not to get into discussions about that anymore.

3. "submissive" guys who don't manhandle me, grab me and do what you want like you mean it

4. vaginas

5. breasts

6. fat people

7. pimples / acne

8. effeminate guys

NotMeNotYou said:
1.) Breathing

This may sound strange but I hate the sound of people breathing near me.

2.) People at room temperature.

And here start the problems.

I sleep with ear plugs since 5 years. If I can hear myself breath for any reason I get crazy. I hate it when other people breath audible around me. And I am afraid others can hear me breath.

Um. Dude.

What happened to NON-SEXUAL TOP 3?

1. Being remotely right-wing
2. Noisy eating
3. Really just being unkind to human or animal

Der_Traubenfuchs said:
4. vaginas

5. breasts

The question was top 3 NON SEXUAL things, keep on topic

1. Jay Naylor. Not his artwork, just him, his writing, his views, and his manner of displaying his views disgust me. Actually, people who are obnoxious about their political views in general, but especially Jay Fucking Naylor.
2. People who make jokes about abuse, rape, abandonment, racism, sexism, etc.
3. People who are obnoxious about shipping. That's shipping as in pairing characters together, not shipping as in transporting goods by way of boats, ships, freighters, etc.

1. Jews
2. Christians
3. Muslims

Munkelzahn said:
1. Jews

Reported for antisemitism.

Munkelzahn said:
2. Christians

This is acceptable.

Munkelzahn said:
3. Muslims

Reported or racism.

FinallyLostIt said:
...
Reported or racism.

Reported for racism.
There are Muslims of every race, assuming that they're all 1 race is also racist.

NotMeNotYou said:
1.) Breathing

This may sound strange but I hate the sound of people breathing near me.

2.) People at room temperature.

And here start the problems.

As a breathing person who dwells at room temperature, I am deeply offended by your bigotry. Also reported.

FinallyLostIt said:
This is acceptable.

Wait so its okay to hate on Christianity, but not any other religion? Those double standards man...they burn...

1: super right wing conservatives, AND STONG PROGRESSIVES. A midpoint view is nessacary to maintain a semi state of peace in life. Don't yell at me about how pot sould be legal, or why gay marrige is evil. I don't want to hear about this stuff. It makes you seem like a jerk. Major turn off.

2:people who are jerks in general.

3: people who force their beliefs onto others.
I believe what I believe in. You believe in what you believe in, but please don't force you beliefs on me. I'll listen to the speech about how the world is a desolate place of death and gloom, but that doesn't mean you will change my mind!

1-. Possesive people: I mean YOU DO'NT FUCKING TOUCH MY STUFF!! IT'S MINE!!!!

2-. Short hair.

3-. Jerks.

4-. Showoffs.

5-. "Bling-Bling" boys, fire-haired kids and talking dogs.

1) Extremism for any stance or cause, resulting in one's inability to reason and see an issue from different viewpoints.

2) Unjustified hatred towards something or someone.

2) When people ask questions that could so easily be answered in less than a minute with a simple Google search.

FatherOfGray said:

2) When people ask questions that could so easily be answered in less than a minute with a simple Google search.

But what if Google goes down... again...

I should be serious.

1. People who force their sexuality/religion or anything else onto other people.

2. People who demand respect when they should be earning it.

3. Child or animal abuse.

4. War.

Edit: 5. Redrusker's scripts for his fucking stories.

1. When someone won't stop talking about their ex.

2. Selfish people

3. Whiny people

:3

1) People who spend all their time being negative and or whining about how awful everyone else is, or how everyone is out to get them. E.g. people who say "Why me" in regards to random, uncontrollable events.

2) People who take silly and unimportant things too seriously, and ignore pressing real-world issues like environmental concerns, civil rights abuses, and violence as a whole. A recent example being the uproar with Ben Affleck as Batman, or everyone who says Miley Cyrus's stupid dance was the worst thing ever.

3) People who seek validation from others instead of themselves. People who do what is "popular and desirable", not what they want to do. Everyone knows these people on Facebook, they upload copious amounts of photos of themselves with pandering captions in order to attract pity and gain validation from others.

There's only two types of people I can't stand.

People who are intolerant of other people's cultures;

and the Dutch.

SirAntagonist said:
There's only two types of people I can't stand.

People who are intolerant of other people's cultures;

and the Dutch.

Why the Dutch?

1) Extreme cruelty to animal.
2) My brother's treatment of his pets... Main reason for number one
3) Politicians

Patch said:
3. Everything that isn't a melon.

oh my

Renard_Queenston said:
Why the Dutch?

They're freaky deaky bastards.

1. People that doesn't understand that there is anything other than themselves that matter.

2. Poor hygiene

3. Slow and stupid people

Lies
Laziness/no work ethic
Rudeness