Topic: Anyone notice that furries seem more open-minded than non-furries?

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Because i notice that with us furries that we seem more accepting than non-furries. Edited to clear things up.

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If there's any correlation, it's probably due to an unforeseen interaction between factors. E.g., of all the people who might be furries (based on their attachment to anthropomorphizing animals in illustration and/or writing etc.), the only ones you will actually meet as "furries" are the ones who are open-minded enough to admit it of themselves. I guess I'd call that a self-selection effect.

More on the matter, though - with furries or with non-furries, it depends who you're asking and how. I am confident that, if I asked my dearest friends for help, they would do what they could without hesitation. I would do the same for them. So, if you don't have friends who are dear to you and to whom you are dear, perhaps you should try making some...?

I mean, who are you asking for help, and what kind of help? Now you're making me curious.

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Not really no. I've been told to bugger off by many furries, and helped by many non-furries.

Also, help does not equal open mindedness.

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what SnowWolf said. for example, I'm very openminded, but if you ask my help, I'll probably tell you I've got my own problems and refuse to help you; but I'll listen to your point of view without judging you for it. that's the difference here, open minded just means more accepting, not necessarily helpful.

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cookiekangaroo said:
what SnowWolf said. for example, I'm very openminded, but if you ask my help, I'll probably tell you I've got my own problems and refuse to help you; but I'll listen to your point of view without judging you for it. that's the difference here, open minded just means more accepting, not necessarily helpful.

Sorry,i meant to say that.

BTW,anyone catch the Documentary about Dragoncon on PBS last night?

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Axelfox said:
Because i notice that with us furries if there is something wrong we often help each other,but with non-furries if you ask for help,they tell you to bugger off.

Most definitely. I put this as the biggest reason so many furs seem to be bisexual.

Also no I didn't see said documentary, is there a place where I can view it online?

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Furries are very open-minded.

They even accept dog-rapists and pedophiles.

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Jay Naylor. Enough said.

But I'll say some more things anyways. I've met plenty of furries who are pretty damn close-minded, and I've met a lot of non-furries who are incredibly helpful. Furries might seem open-minded because they are already accepting of something not many others are: furries. But just because they're acclimated to a concept as radical as anthropomorphized animals it doesn't necessarily mean they are accepting of other obscure concepts. It also goes into stereotyping, where if someone is furry you automatically assume other things about them (i.e. an interest in bestiality, homo/bisexuality, being open-minded, etc.).

As for helpfulness, it has nothing to do with them being furries. Again, I've never seen a correlation between being furry and being helpful.

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JustFrame said:
Furries are very open-minded.

They even accept dog-rapists and pedophiles.

inb4 shitstorm

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ExplosiveBlaziken said:
inb4 shitstorm

Don't feed the trolls, man.

Myself, I find furries are generally much, much more open-minded... about furries. Everything else is a wash. Except for drama. There definitely seems to be a larger streak of drama among furries than elsewhere.

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ikdind said:
Don't feed the trolls, man.

Myself, I find furries are generally much, much more open-minded... about furries. Everything else is a wash. Except for drama. There definitely seems to be a larger streak of drama among furries than elsewhere.

drama toss-up between GLBT community (especially drag queens/kings), and the furry community.

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Axel, I've called you a pervert on 5 different websites...

I am not accepting.

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Furries are generally accepting. Except when it's ponies.
People being furries really has nothing to do with it. It's the kind of people they are that makes some more accepting than others.

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Riversyde said:
Furries are generally accepting. Except when it's ponies.
People being furries really has nothing to do with it. It's the kind of people they are that makes some more accepting than others.

yeah,i've noticed that furries are often more accepting.

Here is the documentary. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BQcW65nzQUY

Of course got this stompbox yesterday and it sounds way better than the Rocktron pedal i got. http://www.musiciansfriend.com/guitars/electro-harmonix-xo-metal-muff-with-top-boost-distortion-guitar-effects-pedal/153339000000000

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They're even less accepting if anything.. at least from what I've seen on FurAffinity.. I posted one little thing about how furry porn makes me horny and I got bashed by everyone on the board. I thought that's what everyone had in common? I guess I was wrong

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Axelfox said:
Would someone please lock this thread? ):

wtf man? Stop crying because everyone doesn't feel exactly the same way you do about this.

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Riversyde said:
wtf man? Stop crying because everyone doesn't feel exactly the same way you do about this.

Sorry about that.

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Eh, to me furries seem like pretty much any other subculture there is:
-More open-minded about things that are accepted by their clique.
-Less open-minded about things that are not accepted by their clique.

It's not that furries are more open-minded than other people, it's just that they're more open-minded about the things you're into (assuming you're a furry yourself, or at least into furry stuff - which is a pretty safe assumption given the nature of this site). Much as some idiots would like to claim otherwise, furries are 100% human and are prone to the same pettiness as anyone else.

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I'm completely open-minded because I just don't care. I don't care what the fuck you do, as long as it doesn't negatively affect me or my friends. You could be an atheist who just got done with an orgy with your wife, son, daughter, and dog while taping it, and you could show me said tape, and I still wouldn't care.

I do have certain morals and stuff, but I can very easily ignore them. The only people I don't accept are assholes who fuck with people just for the fuck of it. They're annoying, and i'd gladly kill them if they tried to get physical with me. But I digress, conservatists need to get lives.

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Ultima_Weapon said:
I'm completely open-minded because I just don't care. I don't care what the fuck you do, as long as it doesn't negatively affect me or my friends. You could be an atheist who just got done with an orgy with your wife, son, daughter, and dog while taping it, and you could show me said tape, and I still wouldn't care.

I do have certain morals and stuff, but I can very easily ignore them. The only people I don't accept are assholes who fuck with people just for the fuck of it. They're annoying, and i'd gladly kill them if they tried to get physical with me. But I digress, conservatists need to get lives.

Are you absolutely sure you aren't me? Because that's my viewpoint. Stop that. Give it back.

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ExplosiveBlaziken said:
Are you absolutely sure you aren't me? Because that's my viewpoint. Stop that. Give it back.

HIPSTERRRRRRRRRRR /Syndrome

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I just notice that they seem more tolerant/accepting of people's lechery than most non-fur folks.

Prolly because a good ninety-percent of furs are pervs. But hey, I digress.

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clark11111 said:
They're even less accepting if anything.. at least from what I've seen on FurAffinity.. I posted one little thing about how furry porn makes me horny and I got bashed by everyone on the board. I thought that's what everyone had in common? I guess I was wrong

You realize that Furaffinity isn't the only furry site. There are more like Furry-furry,furtopia,furry4life and a few others.

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clark11111 said:
They're even less accepting if anything.. at least from what I've seen on FurAffinity.. I posted one little thing about how furry porn makes me horny and I got bashed by everyone on the board. I thought that's what everyone had in common? I guess I was wrong

ironic considering the mature images that are uploaded to the site. (Register an account there, and you can view said mature images.)

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Fringe said:
ironic considering the mature images that are uploaded to the site. (Register an account there, and you can view said mature images.)

Yeah, I know what you're talking about, and I have seen the images there. That's why I was so surprised by being bashed for being turned on by them!

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Axelfox said:
You realize that Furaffinity isn't the only furry site. There are more like Furry-furry,furtopia,furry4life and a few others.

I'll check those out, thanks! :D
So which of these isn't a bunch of little kids who are afraid of their own sexual urges? I'm hoping to meet some more mature, insightful people unlike the general majority on furaffinity.

(P.S. Sorry for the double post! I don't know how to do multiple quotes here)

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clark11111 said:
I'll check those out, thanks! :D
So which of these isn't a bunch of little kids who are afraid of their own sexual urges? I'm hoping to meet some more mature, insightful people unlike the general majority on furaffinity.

(P.S. Sorry for the double post! I don't know how to do multiple quotes here)

they're all immature children. this is probably the only "mature" (and I use that term VERY loosely) site you'll find if the furry community.

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cookiekangaroo said:
they're all immature children. this is probably the only "mature" (and I use that term VERY loosely) site you'll find if the furry community.

I like this site the most. =^-^=

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Wow, it's really refreshing to see someone else who considers the sexual furries more mature.. and also refreshing to have people NOT be offended by me being turned on by furry porn -_- and refreshing to find a site where not everyone is in denial about the sex aspect of the fandom.. haha

Yeah, this site's the best ^^

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clark11111 said:
Wow, it's really refreshing to see someone else who considers the sexual furries more mature.. and also refreshing to have people NOT be offended by me being turned on by furry porn -_- and refreshing to find a site where not everyone is in denial about the sex aspect of the fandom.. haha

Yeah, this site's the best ^^

Yeah,i'm a yiffy fur myself.

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clark11111 said:
I'll check those out, thanks! :D
So which of these isn't a bunch of little kids who are afraid of their own sexual urges? I'm hoping to meet some more mature, insightful people unlike the general majority on furaffinity.

(P.S. Sorry for the double post! I don't know how to do multiple quotes here)

This.

There was a post from someone's journal about someone making fun of someone who died.

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starblade aka tumbles the stairdragon got murdered by friend, arcturus made fun of starblade, got kicked out of FA.

tl;dr version: old furry dramas, don't concern yourself.

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Riversyde said:
starblade aka tumbles the stairdragon got murdered by friend, arcturus made fun of starblade, got kicked out of FA.

tl;dr version: old furry dramas, don't concern yourself.

D: I remember when that happened...that was a long ass time ago.

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cookiekangaroo said:
D: I remember when that happened...that was a long ass time ago.

Me too... I feel so OLD! D:

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Starblade isn't Tumbles.

I'm a little worried that I know that off the top of my head.

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I think it's pointless to make sweeping generalizations on things like this, when such things can only be based on an individual basis. Not all furries are sex crazed fiends, not all gay people are flamingly so. Not all furries are open minded.

Not to mention the anonymity factor of the internet. Those who do such dickish things as make fun of the deceased don't have to worry about being held directly responsible for their actions, aside from bannings and community backlash, to which their usual response tends to be "lol drama, people on the internet don't like me." Someone's not going to beat them up for it, so it's apparently okay to be a douchebag. Same goes for just about any site. Youtube, dA, you can find assholes anywhere. It doesn't seem sound logic to judge a site and it's user for what some users do. Not until the staff start doing the same. I won't defend FA on that point, but neither would I defend e621, for the same reasons.

And much like here, lots of folks on FA don't appreciate being told how horny something makes you. Because much like here, no one needs or wants to know that.

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Axelfox said:
Because i notice that with us furries that we seem more accepting than non-furries. Edited to clear things up.

Talking about sexuality or asking a question that has remotely something to do with sex is considered "creepy" here and gets instantly locked.

I think that says it all, doesn't it?
(Well, that example was more directed to the mods.)

But furries in general aren't more open minded than others. They are like most of the other social groups or minorities out there; very tolerant to people with the same interests, but also easily disgusted by certain things they don't like.
There's no person on this planet that's accepting to everyone.

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ktkr

Former Staff

Ultima_Weapon said:
You could be an atheist who just got done with an orgy with your wife, son, daughter, and dog while taping it, and you could show me said tape, and I still wouldn't care.

Requesting torr~ *4 ton anvil on head*

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i_love_pixiv said:
Talking about sexuality or asking a question that has remotely something to do with sex is considered "creepy" here and gets instantly locked.

I think that says it all, doesn't it?
(Well, that example was more directed to the mods.

It's one mod being overzealous especially when one of the other mods, I think Riversyde, said to make a new thread about it.

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