is there a name for a "soft" bdsm? because i like the "slave and master" thing, but dislike whipping, spanking, electricity, ect. (anything that causes extreme pain.)

slave and master = domination/submission

nme22 said:
is there a name for a "soft" bdsm? because i like the "slave and master" thing

That'd be the 'BD' part of BDSM, then.

nme22 said:
is there a name for a "soft" bdsm? because i like the "slave and master" thing, but dislike whipping, spanking, electricity, ect. (anything that causes extreme pain.)

BDSM doesn't have to be hard and painful... just make sure you know your limits.. and convey them