it's a simple question. which do you prefer, and why?

Top. Society grooms us to. Well, at least in most parts of the world.

I'm not entirely sure this is relevant for lesbians. But I always go for the butch girls. So that'd make me the lesbian rough equivalent of a bottom.

Oh, I thought you were asking Tits or Ass, but my preference still stands for this too.

nme22 said:
it's a simple question. which do you prefer, and why?

I couldn't answer this to save my life XD

Marbles... halp.

read a kama sutra book. after i did, they're both just as good.

Aurali said:
Marbles... halp.

TL;DR: Top or bottom basically means "dominate or submissive, but not in a BDSM way"

Most commonly it is used among gay males to describe which of the two partners more frequently takes on a penetrating "male role" and which one takes on the penetrated "female role." But it also applied occasionally to dom/sub hetero or lesbian relationships, or even rarely to non-dom/sub hetero relationships.

Another phrase which is popular with identical meaning (at least among gay males) is "pitcher and catcher"

Marbles said:
TL;DR: Top or bottom basically means "dominate or submissive, but not in a BDSM way"

Most commonly it is used among gay males to describe which of the two partners more frequently takes on a penetrating "male role" and which one takes on the penetrated "female role." But it also applied occasionally to dom/sub hetero or lesbian relationships, or even rarely to non-dom/sub hetero relationships.

Another phrase which is popular with identical meaning (at least among gay males) is "pitcher and catcher"

that would explain why i don't care lol. cowgirl is fun, but so is doggy style

well, I'm very butch, but I still like being on bottom best. lucky for me, my girlfriend also likes to be on top. ^_^
why I like it- it feels good, is any other reason necessary?

cookiekangaroo said:
it feels good, is any other reason necessary?

Best answer.

You got a feeldoe? Best toy we ever bought. Highly recommend it for any lesbian couple I would.

Marbles said:
Best answer.

You got a feeldoe? Best toy we ever bought. Highly recommend it for any lesbian couple I would.

i've seen those in porns, but the chick ALWAYS has to hold i twith her hand during some hard poundings. does it actually work?

niko_bellic said:
i've seen those in porns, but the chick ALWAYS has to hold i twith her hand during some hard poundings.

Me and my lifemate don't seem to have problems with having to hold them with our hands.

It seems odd, considering at least I know I clinch my vaginal muscles harder during more aggressive uh, stuff. And that makes it even easier to stay in, not more difficult.

Marbles said:
Best answer.

You got a feeldoe? Best toy we ever bought. Highly recommend it for any lesbian couple I would.

can't say I do. I have been looking into getting some new gadgets though.

If this was a baseball game, judging by the pitching and catching, every section is now the nose-bleed section.

Thank you, abbaguday

just noticed that i didn't answer my own question.
i prefer bottom, it gives me a view of her entire body, and i don't feel like i'm crushing her.

nme22 said:
just noticed that i didn't answer my own question.
i prefer bottom, it gives me a view of her entire body, and i don't feel like i'm crushing her.

you can be top and not crush her, 90 degree angle not only does that but it gives great leverage

niko_bellic said:
you can be top and not crush her, 90 degree angle not only does that but it gives great leverage

true, and i have done that, but i still prefer bottom.

Switch.

Bottom because it's less work.

Marbles said:
Best answer.

You got a feeldoe? Best toy we ever bought. Highly recommend it for any lesbian couple I would.

I just realized... there are a lot of other lesbians on this forum... XD I'm used to being the only one.

Top -- I don't need a reason.

Left.

KMakato said:
How come no one ever uses the terms "Seme" and "Uke"?

Cause most of us aren't weeaboos.

Marbles said:
Cause most of us aren't weeaboos.

/applause

Marbles said:
Cause most of us aren't weeaboos.

*One man standing ovation*

Marbles said:
Cause most of us aren't weeaboos.

a man/woman after my own heart

KMakato said:
How come no one ever uses the terms "Seme" and "Uke"?
Seme being "top" or "male role"
Uke being "bottom" or "female role"

also, bottom = win

i meant "top or bottom" literally. not "seme or uke", "dom or sub" you can be bottom, and still be dominant/seme.

i like bottom, but i switch.

switch