@Kemonophonic: I wish I was like that. Or in the very least knew what my orientation actually was and that it was clear cut. (Like gay or straight or bi, but I still am highly confused and it sucks.)

I AM the kind of person though that would like to both have a romantic relationship and even a partner to snuggle up to on the couch or in bed, but I also am like you in that I tend to want to do my own thing in my own room by myself for 99% of the time while my love does the same in another part of the house when a partner is living with me. I like the single aspect around the house, even though I'm dying to have someone anyway and I just hope that if I did get a partner that such would not come off as me being distant, unloving, or otherwise in a negative way.