I've always been confused by the use of foot_fetish, it's obvious to tag when foot_play is involved, but people also frequently seem to tag it to simply mean foot_focus. Now, sometimes the feet are focused on in a way that could be described as sexualized (especially when dialogue alludes to it), but other times people tag foot_fetish simply because the soles happen to be easily visible without even being the focus.
What I suggest: Changing the wiki entry to state that the feet must be actively sexualized, either with foot_play or by having the character present their feet in a deliberate and seductive manner.
Here are some examples currently tagged with foot_fetish with my thoughts:
post #3773453
This should just be tagged soles; I don't even think foot_focus is particulary warranted here.
post #3769973
This fits the mark as the feet are not only focused on but clearly used and focused on seductively, especially with the foot_lick.
post #3753665
Edge case. There is some degree of "showing off" with the feet but not enough to warrant the foot fetish tag as there is just as much focus on the genitals. I'd just tag this with foot_focus without foot_fetish, but I can see how others could disagree.
post #3346808
foot_focus, foot_shot but not foot_fetish. No sexualization is going on here, just a close-up.
post #3389206
No attempt at being seductive or otherwise presenting them deliberately. Shouldn't be tagged with foot_fetish, only foot_focus.
post #3490898
Big focus on the feet, but no sexualization other than a mere close-up. foot_focus but no foot_fetish.