Topic: The subconscious reasons behind fetish's

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There is a subconscious reason behind every fetish. There is also one behind every fear and behind every passion. It is often hard to find the subconscious reason behind a fetish because well. It's subconscious. It is easier to find them in regard to a passion (like) or a fear. (dislike)

For example I developed an interest and -passion- for electrical engineering after I electrocuted my friend in grade 2 using a low voltage Tesla coil. And my irrational fear of nothing being stable enough to hold up my weight when climbing comes from when I was a child climbing a tree and a branch gave out below me. (I was climbing a basically dead tree. My fault, but I didn't fall)

My bloodplay fetish comes from when I was a child as well. (As they often do) And I used to put pennies in my mouth because of the taste the copper had. I did this often and tho it was a bad idea I kept doing it for a long time. After a certain age I stopped and the want/need for the taste never went away. The copper/metallic taste of blood then brings back that taste and there you go. Blood fetish.

I was wondering if anyone else had discovered the subconscious reason behind their fetish's. There is always a reason for your likes/dislikes/fetish's/passions/loves/hates. What is the reason behind your fetish/likes/dislikes. There is one I promise just look for it and share with us how you earned your cup of tea.

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Not another thread like this..

I come to the forums for tags and so on, not to think about my past.

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Seven_Twenty said:
Are you saying that you're an electrical engineering fetishist?

I was saying that my like for the field comes from that. I was giving an example of how things from our childhoods more often then not impact the things we like/do not like later on in life.

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Halite said:
Your apostrophe is extraneous.

It was 4am forgive me for any English mistakes.

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I had a dream I was a sniper rifle and my partner was (somehow) having.....intimacy(?) with me by cycling my mechanism and applying oil, which in reality just looks like cleaning a gun

No idea where that even came from

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ktkr

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I 69-ed a zombie to prevent the sun's death.

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Rainbow_Dash said:
I had a dream I was a sniper rifle and my partner was (somehow) having.....intimacy(?) with me by cycling my mechanism and applying oil, which in reality just looks like cleaning a gun

No idea where that even came from

I... uh.

What?

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Rainbow_Dash said:
I had a dream I was a sniper rifle and my partner was (somehow) having.....intimacy(?) with me by cycling my mechanism and applying oil, which in reality just looks like cleaning a gun

No idea where that even came from

why can't we upvote forum comments

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I think some of you have mistaken what I meant upon creating this post.

My question was not about your dirty dreams. (Rainbow Dash >.>)

There is a reason behind every fetish. It's subconscious in most scenarios, a thing that happened to you in the past that you don't really remember at first but is what cause you to have this certain like. (Fetish) My question as what is the reason that you have that fetish.

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I am tall. I would like a girl who is also tall. Take that to extremes like so often happens, and you have a macro fetish. How terribly unexciting.

I wanna hear more crazy dreams like that though.

Rainbow_Dash said:
...which in reality just looks like cleaning a gun

Now I can't help but imagine filling a magazine with bullets, but then slotting one too many in and the bullets get sprung out of the magazine and go everywhere, and then just lying there in awkward post-mechano-psuedo-coitus.

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Cronolgical said:
I think some of you have mistaken what I meant upon creating this post.

My question was not about your dirty dreams. (Rainbow Dash >.>)

There is a reason behind every fetish. It's subconscious in most scenarios, a thing that happened to you in the past that you don't really remember at first but is what cause you to have this certain like. (Fetish) My question as what is the reason that you have that fetish.

Oh no I heard you, and my post was response that sometimes my subconscious brain just has no idea what it's doing

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ippiki_ookami said:
for Fetish's what? Who is Fetish?

We already went over the ' issue. It's a mixture of 4am and no sleep.

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It's impossible to determine fully what a person's aspirations, fetishes, and fears stem from unless there was a stark traumatic/memorable event/series of events. You may think that you like bloodplay from the pennies, when it's really just a convergence of countless things that have happened to you, and the blood reminds you of the coppery taste. (Also, be careful with that blood drinking. AIDS ahoy.)

There are hundreds of theories talking about the origin of fetishes. Hardly any of them agree.

You should read some of them, so we can nuke this thread.

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SirAntagonist said:
It's impossible to determine fully what a person's aspirations, fetishes, and fears stem from unless there was a stark traumatic/memorable event/series of events. You may think that you like bloodplay from the pennies, when it's really just a convergence of countless things that have happened to you, and the blood reminds you of the coppery taste. (Also, be careful with that blood drinking. AIDS ahoy.)

There are hundreds of theories talking about the origin of fetishes. Hardly any of them agree.

You should read some of them, so we can nuke this thread.

"AIDS ahoy"

I hope you don't mind if I use that some time in the future for whatever reason I find.

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Cronolgical said:
There is a subconscious reason behind every fetish. There is also one behind every fear and behind every passion. It is often hard to find the subconscious reason behind a fetish because well. It's subconscious. It is easier to find them in regard to a passion (like) or a fear. (dislike)

For example I developed an interest and -passion- for electrical engineering after I electrocuted my friend in grade 2 using a low voltage Tesla coil. And my irrational fear of nothing being stable enough to hold up my weight when climbing comes from when I was a child climbing a tree and a branch gave out below me. (I was climbing a basically dead tree. My fault, but I didn't fall)

My bloodplay fetish comes from when I was a child as well. (As they often do) And I used to put pennies in my mouth because of the taste the copper had. I did this often and tho it was a bad idea I kept doing it for a long time. After a certain age I stopped and the want/need for the taste never went away. The copper/metallic taste of blood then brings back that taste and there you go. Blood fetish.

I was wondering if anyone else had discovered the subconscious reason behind their fetish's. There is always a reason for your likes/dislikes/fetish's/passions/loves/hates. What is the reason behind your fetish/likes/dislikes. There is one I promise just look for it and share with us how you earned your cup of tea.

Nietzsche > Foucault >> Skinner >>> Freud

Sigmund Freud was wrong. We're in to what we're conditioned to be in to. I would never deny that idiosyncratic experiences are important to who you are, but I think most things you associate with your identity, from your morals to sexual fetishes, were imbued into you by the culture(s) you grew up in and were exposed to. There are, of course, aspects of the mind which could be called subconscious, but lets not think of the subconscious as a madman who draws together sympathies in a random and chaotic fashion, using modes of thought not conditioned to it by society.

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thismadness said:
Nietzsche > Foucault >> Skinner >>> Freud

Sigmund Freud was wrong. We're in to what we're conditioned to be in to. I would never deny that idiosyncratic experiences are important to who you are, but I think most things you associate with your identity, from your morals to sexual fetishes, were imbued into you by the culture(s) you grew up in and were exposed to. There are, of course, aspects of the mind which could be called subconscious, but lets not think of the subconscious as a madman who draws together sympathies in a random and chaotic fashion, using modes of thought not conditioned to it by society.

Freud has been thoroughly discredited, pretty much across the board.
He was a big deal in psychology, and without him we wouldn't be where we are today, but his ideas in the end turned out wrong.

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Halite said:
Freud has been thoroughly discredited, pretty much across the board.
He was a big deal in psychology, and without him we wouldn't be where we are today, but his ideas in the end turned out wrong.

But what about the phalluses, everyone likes phalluses.

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I don't think there's a reason for my array of monster based fetishes.

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NightLord14 said:
I don't think there's a reason for my array of monster based fetishes.

You were molested by the monster under your bed, in your sleep.

They only make you think this is your fetish.

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NightLord14 said:
I don't think there's a reason for my array of monster based fetishes.

That could be a hard one. It depends on the monster I suppose? Perhaps the reasoning is that during your years of just getting into sexual acts. (That's around 13-14 for boys I'm not sure about girls) And or the beginnings of puberty. (Basically the same thing) One of your major interests was monsters? That coupled with the curiosity of your newly sexual mind could create the interest in monster based porn? Thus creating your monster fetish. Possibly?

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I think I just looked at too much porn and got bored of normal stuff, really.

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Cutedementia said:
That could be a hard one. It depends on the monster I suppose? Perhaps the reasoning is that during your years of just getting into sexual acts. (That's around 13-14 for boys I'm not sure about girls) And or the beginnings of puberty. (Basically the same thing) One of your major interests was monsters? That coupled with the curiosity of your newly sexual mind could create the interest in monster based porn? Thus creating your monster fetish. Possibly?

I was way in to mythology when I was a kid. Mostly Greek and Roman stuff (though they're sorta the some thing). I like learning about the mythological monsters the most though. In fact, it influences my writing today. So yeah, that might be a reason.

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Moon_Moon said:
But what about the phalluses, everyone likes phalluses.

Phalloi.

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Oi! I'll stick my phalloi in your poi! >:I

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brb checking for existence of anthro poi girls

edit: mistook poi for koi, still found results

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Vore?
Is it something I acquired from reading my sister's biology books when I was around 6?

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Pantherra said:
Vore?
Is it something I acquired from reading my sister's biology books when I was around 6?

I had a friend who picked it up from watching an alien movie where the main character was in a cage and the aliens were using them as fuel by eating them through what looked a lot like an anus...

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