Seriously, look at the Tags listing under *gender*. There are a ridiculous number of tags all meaning a character is gender-bent.
I originally tried tagging my latest upload Genderbent but didn't want it to be a standalone tag, tried Genderbender but it was also a standalone, so I looked through and saw Genderbend. I don't know, somehow it seems to me that saying it in past tense would be more... proper? It's the first thing I'd think to search for.
Unless the gender-bending was taking place, which would be an impossible context. A gender-bent character is simply a take on an alternatively-gendered version of the character, such as Miles_Prower and Tailsko. If a character was swapping genders in the midst of the image it would be transformation and/or transgender/transgendering.
In short: Genderbend, Genderbent, or what? I wouldn't mind going through and changing the Genderbend tags to Genderbent if a number of people agree.
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