see conversation forum #258185

This tag is for situation where someone is using one of their organs to stimulate an organ of a herm character.

The other person can also be using an object.

Licking hir anus, rubbing hir nipples, fucking hir vagina; the herm is the one whom is on the receiving end.

'Using' does not necessarily assume consent or dominance, so this is not appropriate for a dominant herm having vaginal with a male because shi is still receiving his penis, even if shi is taking it.

To determine who is the giver and who is the receiver try to think who has the 'passive' part and who has the 'active' part.

Generally, 'passive' parts are:
pussy
anus
cloaca
mouth
nipples
breasts
because these parts more-or-less lack the ability to use another part if the part is not cooperating.

whereas 'out' parts are generally:
penis
finger
tongue
dildo
tentacle
because these parts can force their way in and manipulate another part.

An odd exception to this is penetrable_sex_toy, as a person can put this in their hand and 'use' it on someone else with much more control than the person it is being used on.

A receiver is on generally on the receiving end of such things as:
vaginal_intercourse
anal
anal_fingering
anal_teasing
rimming
fellatio
cunnilingus
titjob

What if we know it's a herm who has been turned into another gender?
Tag what you see.