G0wther said:
Someone (maybe one who is a total horn ball) want to explain this to me? I'd be greatful to know how this works to better understand you normal people.

Similar to someone "thinking with one's dick". Someone's horniness drives them to make impulsive, irrational decisions in an attempt to release their sexual frustration/tension, and after an orgasm helps release that tension and provides an endorphin rush, they're more calm, less impulsive, and can think more rationally. I can't say I've experienced this to any significant degree, I think in art and fiction it's played up for the fantasy/fetish aspect of being extremely horny, but "post nut regret" is a real thing that can sometimes happens to men, women, or anyone.

@Watsit: I suppose that that would make sense the way you so beautifully put it. Though for a number of reasons, some valid some not, lots of guys feel very ashamed and bad afterwards so I believe post nut shame is more realistic which would probably leave one with an even cloudier head than before.

I do know from experience though that if one is forced to not be able to take care of their 'needs' for a super long time, (at least males) it can have a really negative effect on their mental AND physical health.

So clarity or otherwise, it does a person well to take care of that at least regularly for legitimate health reasons. And given your insight, I guess I'm even MORE of an advocate now.