In response to blip #109110
@Watsit: I suppose that that would make sense the way you so beautifully put it. Though for a number of reasons, some valid some not, lots of guys feel very ashamed and bad afterwards so I believe post nut shame is more realistic which would probably leave one with an even cloudier head than before.
I do know from experience though that if one is forced to not be able to take care of their 'needs' for a super long time, (at least males) it can have a really negative effect on their mental AND physical health.
(To keep it simple, go all 9 years of your male puberty without your body's sexual health being cared for even once and you'll understand first hand why I'm so fucked up now.)
So clarity or otherwise, it does a person well to take care of that at least regularly for legitimate health reasons. And given your insight, I guess I'm even MORE of an advocate now.