Topic: A question about tags (help me out here, trans ladies)

Posted under Tag Alias and Implication Suggestions

RainW said:
also NotMeNotYou and TheHuskyK9, I have a lot of respect for you right now. I actually got an apology from NMNY and Husky did not just throw a fit and ban me when I said he said messed up things.

While Im not happy that you called me "he", Husky, I am glad that both of you seem to (so far) be the kind of people that dont just swing their authority around to silence people that disagree.

Thats rare these days on the internet :)

Why would I ban you for stating your position? That would be abuse of power. I am sorry for the "he" part though, I really don't know how to address you dudes because I get corrected often IRL when sometimes one tran prefers to be a "he", another prefers "she", etc.

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NotMeNotYou said:
Now, this part, I'm 100% certain that this is a joke at Patchi's ability to pee normally while standing.
I mean, I know she's female (bodywise) and otherwise her comment wouldn't make sense.

So, I really don't think this is transphobic if the intention was to poke fun at our crazy aussie.

hmm.. I thought moon moon was talking about people in general, but seeing as it was directed at someone that seems to not mind or whatever I will admit to being wrong.

Its still not a very nice joke, but alright.
My apologies, Moon Moon.

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TheHuskyK9 said:
Why would I ban you for stating your position? That would be abuse of power. I am sorry for the "he" part though, I really don't know how to address you dudes because I get corrected often IRL when sometimes one tran prefers to be a "he", another prefers "she", etc.

Because a lot of times people in positions of power, especially on the internet, let it go to their head and abuse it, and I am always (unfortunately) delightfully surprised when I meet someone that hasnt let that happen. :)

Also if you are ever unsure, just ask. I've never met a trans person that gets legitimately upset that someone asked their pronoun preference. ^_^
I will say though that if they call their-self and their girlfriend "pirate lesbians" its a good clue :p

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RainW said:
Because a lot of times people in positions of power, especially on the internet, let it go to their head and abuse it, and I am always (unfortunately) delightfully surprised when I meet someone that hasnt let that happen. :)

Also if you are ever unsure, just ask. I've never met a trans person that gets legitimately upset that someone asked their pronoun preference. ^_^
I will say though that if they call their-self and their girlfriend "pirate lesbians" its a good clue :p

Hmm, advise received

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Peekaboo said:
I've seen worse threads, this could have been way, way more hostile than it have been. Instead of disagreeing about opiniosn we could've said things about each others mums.

That's why I mentioned tumblr. Yeah, as RainW, they can be more open there and given how people treat them they're even more open, but there's no need to wish for everyone's death :/

Or you were prob talking about my post, yeah, I could have worded that a bit better. Came off a bit dick-ish.

Are't we talking about dicks? :P

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RainW said:
On this site calling two women with penises not lesbian is cool, rules and what not. But irl if two ladies with penises are together they are in a lesbian relationship. It looked like Husky was implying that they are not, because lesbian = 100% female in every single absolute way.

People searching for lesbians in the tags dont want to see penises. It's as simple as that. Intersex characters don't get orientation tags. That's why we have male_on_dickgirl, female_on_herm, etc.

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ippiki_ookami said:
People searching for lesbians in the tags dont want to see penises. It's as simple as that. Intersex characters don't get orientation tags. That's why we have male_on_dickgirl, female_on_herm, etc.

tree fity shades of this

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RainW said:
My apologies, Moon Moon.

It's k.

Also explain to me the whole premise of "pirate lesbians" is it called that because y'all plunder the booty, or because you have a "peg leg" or what?

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White_Len said:
Also, it's pansexual, not lesbian, since lesbians don't really enjoy the presence of penises (At all).

Uhh...how do you explain dildos and strap-ons then?

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Moon_Moon said:
Also explain to me the whole premise of "pirate lesbians" is it called that because y'all plunder the booty, or because you have a "peg leg" or what?

It's totally for the booty

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Moon_Moon said:
Uhh...how do you explain dildos and strap-ons then?

FOR SCIENCE! [/i]

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Moon_Moon said:
It's k.

Also explain to me the whole premise of "pirate lesbians" is it called that because y'all plunder the booty, or because you have a "peg leg" or what?

in the post where I first said it, I said I cant wait to cross swords with my girlfriend, and then we would be swashbuckling pirate lesbians

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White_Len said:
I am a transgirl, but I do not approve of extremists of any group. Be it transgender, feminist, misogynistic, etc., I don't care because extremism; it's all the same to me.

I refuse to back you up if you're going to bash on the term "dickgirl". You'll notice this is merely slang for a woman with a penis. You'll also notice this website tends to use a LOT of slang.

Pussy = Vagina
Sperm/Semen = Cum
Newhalf/Shemale = Dickgirl

Starting to get the picture? If you're not thoroughly convinced it's not a bad term, there's acknowledgement on the wiki page.

https://e621.net/wiki/show?title=dickgirl

"The dickgirl tag encompasses both characters that are intersexed in this manner by creative liberty as well as characters that are male-to-female transgendered."

You're acknowledged, "female" is often used in addition to this tag. They're being respectful but they use slang because the term is more sexually appealing, and more people would want to use/see it on a website like this. The tag "woman_who_has_a_penis_who_is_transgendered" isn't that appealing to someone who comes here for spanking material.

Also, it's pansexual, not lesbian, since lesbians don't really enjoy the presence of penises (At all).

If you wanted a website full of supporters as well as other extremists who will back you up and support you no matter what, there's plenty of helpful resources like http://www.susans.org/ who will be glad to talk with you.

So quit whining on a site that was originally intended for porn. :l Not really the best place to ask for transgender justice, if you ask me.

Well first off, "Shemale" is a very awful term. Like equally as bad as "tranny".

And secondly lesbians dont enjoy guys. I know plenty of /lesbians/ that dont mind and/or are interested in lady penis.

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And another thing, calling something out and seeking change is not extremist.

telling all of the cis people on this site to die is extremist, which as you can see by reading, I did not do in the slightest.

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RainW said:
And another thing, calling something out and seeking change is not extremist.

telling all of the cis people on this site to die is extremist, which as you can see by reading, I did not do in the slightest.

You still call people bigots, right-wingers and transphobics when they disagree with you or don't see your exact point of view.

You could be trying to say something completely different than what you're coming out as saying. =Y I don't know, but it's just what I'm seeing. You just sound incredibly far out to me, is all.

What's in place in the tagging system isn't targeting at you, so I don't see why there's fuss. You could always try to rephrase what you said so I can understand better.

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I could always try to help resolve an issue to the best of my ability, and I sure would like to, but the tagging system in place is extremely polished up.

Just help me understand, okay?

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White_Len said:
You still call people bigots, right-wingers and transphobics when they disagree with you or don't see your exact point of view.

You could be trying to say something completely different than what you're coming out as saying. =Y I don't know, but it's just what I'm seeing. You just sound incredibly far out to me, is all.

What's in place in the tagging system isn't targeting at you, so I don't see why there's fuss. You could always try to rephrase what you said so I can understand better.

I didnt call anybody a bigot or a right-winger, and I only called someone trasphobic when they made a joke that sounded transphobic, and when it seemed like Husky was implying that irl women with penises cant be lesbians or whatever.

Read the rest of the thread and you will see what I was trying to say as well, and even why I started this thread in the first place :p

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RainW said:
I didnt call anybody a bigot or a right-winger, and I only called someone trasphobic when they made a joke that sounded transphobic, and when it seemed like Husky was implying that irl women with penises cant be lesbians or whatever.

Read the rest of the thread and you will see what I was trying to say as well, and even why I started this thread in the first place :p

Um, you can make transphobic jokes without being transphobic.
See, jokes are by their nature not serious, hence jokes.

It's like the difference between what Michael Richards did, and what Daniel Tosh regularly does.

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Halite said:
Um, you can make transphobic jokes without being transphobic.
See, jokes are by their nature not serious, hence jokes.

It's like the difference between what Michael Richards did, and what Daniel Tosh regularly does.

both of them are pretty awful to be honest

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RainW said:
both of them are pretty awful to be honest

And now we see the real problem.

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Halite said:
It's like the difference between what Michael Richards did, and what Daniel Tosh regularly does.

Because Daniel Tosh is pretty funny.
It may hurt some people's feewings but it's still fucking hilarious.

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