Oh, a self-cuck! Those are rare!

sergal239 said:
Pretty sure there's a difference between a "cuck" and someone not minding if their partner sleeps around for any long list of valid reasons. Doing stuff the other isnt comfortable with, the opposite gender, and what is happening here which is him being away. Just because humans lack the social diversity to understand or allow these things doesnt *always* make them wrong you know?

Lol just because some people are okay with it while others are not does NOT mean we as humans lack any sort of social construct you are trying to convey. It just means we all have a different way of understanding what respect and boundaries are.

sergal239 said:
Pretty sure there's a difference between a "cuck" and someone not minding if their partner sleeps around for any long list of valid reasons. Doing stuff the other isnt comfortable with, the opposite gender, and what is happening here which is him being away. Just because humans lack the social diversity to understand or allow these things doesnt *always* make them wrong you know?

I started to read your comment and upvoted but removed after reading the last sentence. I agree with the rest tho.

But yea thats not cuckhold, just some kind of open relationship.

k9not said:
I started to read your comment and upvoted but removed after reading the last sentence. I agree with the rest tho.

But yea thats not cuckhold, just some kind of open relationship.

Letting your partner sleep with someone else willingly is literally the definition of cuckold.

sergal239 said:
Pretty sure there's a difference between a "cuck" and someone not minding if their partner sleeps around for any long list of valid reasons. Doing stuff the other isnt comfortable with, the opposite gender, and what is happening here which is him being away. Just because humans lack the social diversity to understand or allow these things doesnt *always* make them wrong you know?

It's not about lacking constructs or the act itself being being good or wrong. It's just language.
For example, "prostitution" and "whoring" are still the same thing, even if we use two different words to describe it. Choosing one word over another only shows the speaker's general attitude towards the action in question. Or emotional charge / involvement. It's a personal choice.

distant-star said:
Letting your partner sleep with someone else willingly is literally the definition of cuckold.

Isn't cuckhold being turned on by your partner being fucked while you can't touch her or something like that? Like the feeling of giving your partner? I have a friend who is in a relation and both of them can sleep with other people as long as they tell each other. Pretty sure that this is not cuckhold.

vealck2 said:
Oh, a self-cuck! Those are rare!

Got this reference :D

lncc said:
cuckold is disgusting

You can blacklist stuff you don't want to see, and if something isn't tagged you can add it. Adding the needed tags will help everyone else too, while commenting about how much you don't like something doesn't do anything productive.

k9not said:
Isn't cuckhold being turned on by your partner being fucked while you can't touch her or something like that? Like the feeling of giving your partner? I have a friend who is in a relation and both of them can sleep with other people as long as they tell each other. Pretty sure that this is not cuckhold.

don't be too correct about it now, people like the answer they already decided is correct.

sergal239 said:
Pretty sure there's a difference between a "cuck" and someone not minding if their partner sleeps around for any long list of valid reasons. Doing stuff the other isnt comfortable with, the opposite gender, and what is happening here which is him being away. Just because humans lack the social diversity to understand or allow these things doesnt *always* make them wrong you know?

No one said being a cuck is wrong.

This is more akin to hotwifing than to cuckolding (although the two are similar), but I don't think "hotwife" has a tag.

What I love in all this debate is the subtle but obvious "Her husband is a CUCK!" and the near total lack of "His wife is ALSO getting cucked"...really shows where we stand in all this. Wife fucks not-husband is bad, but husband fucks not-wife is OK.

...and before anyone starts trying to shame-shame-shame me...as long as all parties are cool with it, I personally call it all good.

k9not said:
Isn't cuckhold being turned on by your partner being fucked while you can't touch her or something like that? Like the feeling of giving your partner? I have a friend who is in a relation and both of them can sleep with other people as long as they tell each other. Pretty sure that this is not cuckhold.

Nah cuckolding has no premise like that. By definition and practice, it's simply a wife having extramarital sex. Whether the husband is okay with, or even knows about, it doesn't matter in the slightest.

beep said:
What I love in all this debate is the subtle but obvious "Her husband is a CUCK!" and the near total lack of "His wife is ALSO getting cucked"...really shows where we stand in all this. Wife fucks not-husband is bad, but husband fucks not-wife is OK.

...and before anyone starts trying to shame-shame-shame me...as long as all parties are cool with it, I personally call it all good.

that's because cuckquean is so rare by comparison that it's basically a nonissue. and where does it imply that he's also doing something? I get that this is a zaush rag so it's likely, but it isn't even remotely implied.

My wife and I are poly. We date others, sometimes apart, sometimes together. The key here is communication, trust, and boundaries. If someone wants to call me a cuck for that, go for it, but it's definitely considered rude. Us and others in the community do NOT throw around that word, it just tends to have a negative and hateful connotation. Kinda like calling a queer person a.. you know, not going to say it. That's a bit worse, but you get the point.

There are definitely people that are into cucking though. In this case, the word is used to specifically mean a kind of power, humiliation roleplay type of thing, and not cheating on your partner. And it is possible to cheat on your partner(s) in a poly relationship by the way. Lying and going behind everyone's backs with someone else is still cheating.

I think my inherent problem with using the word "cucking" to refer to a situation that is clearly consensual by everyone involved (and isn't roleplay), is that it's almost exclusively used against the guy in the relationship to try and shame or otherwise hurt him. But when the guy "cucks" the girl, it's not talked about or seen in the same way. It's just a guy in a MFF threesome, and people go "oohhhh niiicceee duuude!" Yeah, sexism.

I guess that's my hot take on this.

yourfriendjan said:
My wife and I are poly. We date others, sometimes apart, sometimes together. The key here is communication, trust, and boundaries. If someone wants to call me a cuck for that, go for it, but it's definitely considered rude. Us and others in the community do NOT throw around that word, it just tends to have a negative and hateful connotation. Kinda like calling a queer person a.. you know, not going to say it. That's a bit worse, but you get the point.

There are definitely people that are into cucking though. In this case, the word is used to specifically mean a kind of power, humiliation roleplay type of thing, and not cheating on your partner. And it is possible to cheat on your partner(s) in a poly relationship by the way. Lying and going behind everyone's backs with someone else is still cheating.

I think my inherent problem with using the word "cucking" to refer to a situation that is clearly consensual by everyone involved (and isn't roleplay), is that it's almost exclusively used against the guy in the relationship to try and shame or otherwise hurt him. But when the guy "cucks" the girl, it's not talked about or seen in the same way. It's just a guy in a MFF threesome, and people go "oohhhh niiicceee duuude!" Yeah, sexism.

I guess that's my hot take on this.

Is there a way to follow on this site? Because you're cool.

sergal239 said:
Pretty sure there's a difference between a "cuck" and someone not minding if their partner sleeps around for any long list of valid reasons. Doing stuff the other isnt comfortable with, the opposite gender, and what is happening here which is him being away. Just because humans lack the social diversity to understand or allow these things doesnt *always* make them wrong you know?

Lmao letting your S/O sleep around quite literally just makes you a cuck.

distant-star said:
Letting your partner sleep with someone else willingly is literally the definition of cuckold.

comnderyo said:
Lmao letting your S/O sleep around quite literally just makes you a cuck.

It is only cheating if it is breaking a rule.

It is cuckolding if the party is an unwitting victim of a cheating adulterer, insofar as the original clinical definition.

If all parties have/have given consent under the modern interpretation of the term, then many commenters here on e6 are sadly kink-shaming.

That's a nice plane.