Just dont give him an extra donut

Can someone explain how this would in any way be pleasurable? As someone who hates pain it just seems like abuse

shrouded_tiger said:
Can someone explain how this would in any way be pleasurable? As someone who hates pain it just seems like abuse

masochism

Shrouded_Tiger said:
As someone who hates pain

Well, there's why

Yeah which is why I’m trying to understand it. How is pain pleasurable? What part of being hit and beaten is fun?

shrouded_tiger said:
Yeah which is why I’m trying to understand it. How is pain pleasurable? What part of being hit and beaten is fun?

Submission, impact play is very romantic in certain relationships. It is a way of an outing, internal pain ≈ external pain at least for me. You yourself said you hate pain so you will never be able to understand from a masochist’s point of view there’s a number of factors that make it so enjoyable for one. It’s best not to try and understand, if you don’t like the content you may blacklist <3

shrouded_tiger said:
Yeah which is why I’m trying to understand it. How is pain pleasurable? What part of being hit and beaten is fun?

Well like all sexuality its extremely subjective and can vary wildly by mood.

In the right context, some people like many sensations - pain being just another one, and somewhat exciting. I'd liken it to horror movies or especially sad stories. Within the context of kink-play its done with intent and with someone you care about.