I have a bit of a silly and personal question I'm curious about.

If we remove the possibility of pregnancy and STDs, would you prefer to be cummed inside rather than cummed on? I can see why some would like the emotional and physical feeling of it.

Guys, feel free to post your preference if you'd like to.

Is this topic helluva stupid?

Edit: I just remembered. Sperm contains hormones that gives a boost to your mood.

Guys, feel free to post your preference if you'd like to.

Well, gotta say, that removed risk of getting pregnant really persuaded me.

Jugofthat said:
Well, gotta say, that removed risk of getting pregnant really persuaded me.

XD

No bum bullying for you.

As a guy I have that morbid fear that most women really hate sex and that it hurts. Is this true?

TruckNutz said:
As a guy I have that morbid fear that most women really hate sex and that it hurts. Is this true?

Nope. I have the impression that really few women hate sex and that most like it.

I don't think we can say for sure until we get a girl's perspective...

no girls on the internet guys

Girls on e621: conspicuously absent.

I wouldn't want to be touched with someone's hand, let alone with someone's penis.

Ratte said:
I wouldn't want to be touched with someone's hand, let alone with someone's penis.

That's "hardcore".

I... wouldn't? Ugh, the more I think about sexual intercourse the more repulsive it gets.

Kaeetayel said:
I... wouldn't? Ugh, the more I think about sexual intercourse the more repulsive it gets.

No offense, but what are you doing here?

im not woman but i still do have a vagina so i think that my opinion counts. yes, i prefer it. like, im sex repulsed asexual and thats basically the only thing i actually like about having sex

TruckNutz said:
As a guy I have that morbid fear that most women really hate sex and that it hurts. Is this true?

probably is. I mean it'd make sense

Wow the ladies are feeling pretty salty today.
This actually makes me fucking sad cause if I'm having sex I'd want her to enjoy it at least as much as I do

Mutisija said:
im not woman but i still do have a vagina so i think that my opinion counts. yes, i prefer it. like. im sex repulsed asexual and thats basically the only thing i actually like about having sex

Forgive me, but it sounds a bit weird that you like the cum inside part as a sex repulsed asexual. If you don't want to explain why, that's ok.

As an asexual, what makes you visit e621?

Ryuzaki_Izawa said:
probably is. I mean it'd make sense

Really? It doesn't make sense to me.

TruckNutz said:
Wow the ladies are feeling pretty salty today.
This actually makes me fucking sad cause if I'm having sex I'd want her to enjoy it at least as much as I do

I feel you. It wouldn't be worth it knowing they didn't receive any joy or pleasure from it.

Sorrowless said:
Forgive me, but it sounds a bit weird that you like the cum inside part as a sex repulsed asexual. If you don't want to explain why, that's ok.

As an asexual, what makes you visit e621?

Really? It doesn't make sense to me.

Think about it. A man and woman get hitched and she acts like she wants to do it but she really treats it like a chore. Like just fuck me and b dun, yunno? There's like no real love at all.

Sorrowless said:

I feel you. It wouldn't be worth it knowing they didn't receive any joy or pleasure from it.

It makes me feel like shit thinking about it even tho I probably shouldn't care ftw

Sorrowless said:
Really? It doesn't make sense to me.

Well i mean if you think about it, sex being a painful experience would make sense because like, friction? And how there's like zero biological reason for it to be a nice thing

TruckNutz said:
It makes me feel like shit thinking about it even tho I probably shouldn't care ftw

I think you should care.

If you have sex with someone who likes you, it should be impossible to not give a good amount of pleasure with the right knowledge. Give her lots of foreplay. Using your hands or giving oral. If both of you like kissing, why not do that. Maybe she likes to give you a job? And should you come, it doesn't mean that it has to stop. You can still go back to using your hands and mouth. A bit of communication can go far as well.

Sorrowless said:
would you prefer to be cummed inside?

They will after I'm through with em

Ryuzaki_Izawa said:
Well i mean if you think about it, sex being a painful experience would make sense because like, friction? And how there's like zero biological reason for it to be a nice thing

No, no. The friction is not that bad. The vagina produces lubrication when aroused and the friction that remains should be pleasurable under normal circumstances. The first time can be painful however because of the hymen.
There are in fact biological reasons for it to be a nice thing. The only known function of the clitoris is for it give give pleasure. The female orgasm also increases fertility. I don't quite remember the specifics. Some sort of contractions for the sperm to reach further. You can look it up.
There is also an intimate and emotional part of sex. Humans are social creatures who mostly live in packs. Sex is intimate and creates a stronger bond under good conditions.

R-U-S-T-Y said:
They will after I'm through with em

It's the 21st fuckin century all women are becoming antisexual man haters you'll get about as close as a restraining order

TruckNutz said:
It's the 21st fuckin century all women are becoming antisexual man haters you'll never fucking get close

who was it who said "The only way to win is not to play", again?

Ryuzaki_Izawa said:
who was it who said "The only way to win is not to play", again?

Some guy who figured out "the game".

Ryuzaki_Izawa said:
who was it who said "The only way to win is not to play", again?

Kurt Cobain?

Sorrowless said:
No, no. The friction is not that bad. The vagina produces lubrication when aroused and the friction that remains should be pleasurable under normal circumstances. The first time can be painful however because of the hymen.
There are in fact biological reasons for it to be a nice thing. The only known function of the clitoris is for it give give pleasure. The female orgasm also increases fertility. I don't quite remember the specifics. Some sort of contractions for the sperm to reach further. You can look it up.
There is also an intimate and emotional part of sex. Humans are social creatures who mostly live in packs. Sex is intimate and creates a stronger bond under good conditions.

Well said.

I'd like to add that if sex were not nice, women would not participate in it. At least, not with any frequency. This might not be the death of the species, if men were aggressive enough (and thus rape were the most common method of procreation), but that is generally a less preferable system for both the male and the female.

In such a system there is a greater chance of injury, and there is less of an option for partner selection - which is a massive advantage.

So yeah. I would argue the opposite, in fact - there is almost no reason why sex should not be pleasurable for females as well as males.

give cum enema pls

Finally other people are being asked the whole "why are you even on e6" thing instead of just me. Today is a good day.

Sorrowless said:
No, no. The friction is not that bad. The vagina produces lubrication when aroused and the friction that remains should be pleasurable under normal circumstances. The first time can be painful however because of the hymen.

Most things that have been said about hymen are complete myths. By the time most women have sex for the first time, vaginal corona has already stretched to the point where it is unnoticeable. Either because of tampon use and masturbation, or simply from daily activities such as gymnastics and bike riding.

The bleeding during the first intercourse (which is actually rare) is usually caused by the lack of lubrication, which in turn is often caused by nervousness.

I'd imagine that pleasure from both sides would be advantageous to mating and successfully reproducing. Humans aren't like ducks where it's just continuous rape so from an evolutionary standpoint pain during intercourse might be bad for the species

Unrelated to that, the vast majority of women enjoy sex as much as men and also look at porn (maybe not as much as men on that part though)

Different people are different. A lot, and I do mean a lot, of woman enjoy sex. I mean, woman masturbate a bunch. Why would anybody do that if it wasn't pleasurable? Nevermind the fact that an orgasm releases a ton of endorphins into the body.

The fact that a lot of people are becoming asexual is also probably more a byproduct of our current society. There have been some interesting studies made with mice that, once an utopia has been created (meaning survival of the fittest is no longer important and there is a limitless amount of food & water), that a large part of rats will simply stop pursuing sex once an overpopulation is reached. This is interesting because those mice are perfectly healthy and have a large selection of mates available. It's theorized that this might happen (and somewhat is already happening) with humans.

As a side note, I know quite a few woman who enjoy the feeling of cum inside them. But others dislike it. As so often with preferences they vary wildly from one person to another.

Knotty_Curls said:
give cum enema pls

seconded

TruckNutz said:
It's the 21st fuckin century all women are becoming antisexual man haters you'll get about as close as a restraining order

Whereever I am

I must also rape

NotMeNotYou said:

The fact that a lot of people are becoming asexual is also probably more a byproduct of our current society. There have been some interesting studies made with mice that, once an utopia has been created (meaning survival of the fittest is no longer important and there is a limitless amount of food & water), that a large part of rats will simply stop pursuing sex once an overpopulation is reached.

Ugh. Utopia. I could never live in such a world of co dependence. I value my independence and freedom too much to give up hunting, fishing and having my house around trees. I'd kill myself being stuck in a metropolis. I have to have open land. Tho I like visiting downtown.
That's the thing about today that bothers me is we're running out of where we can run to.
Sorry I just had to let it out.

To answer OP's question. No, I'm not going to let a guy cum in me. Wrap that shit.

Being asexual, I'd prefer not being cummed on, in, or anywhere in my general vicinity.

Alternately, ignoring my being the Ace up my sleeve, vagina > dicks. Dicks are nice at a distance. (So are vaginas, but I'd be more willing to get up close and personal with one.)

Crystalinn said:
Being asexual, I'd prefer not being cummed on, in, or anywhere in my general vicinity.

Alternately, ignoring my being the Ace up my sleeve, vagina > dicks. Dicks are nice at a distance. (So are vaginas, but I'd be more willing to get up close and personal with one.)

Fear the penis. Fear and respect its power.

TruckNutz said:
Fear the penis. Fear and respect its power.

That gave me a good laugh :)

Sorrowless said:
No, no. The friction is not that bad. The vagina produces lubrication when aroused and the friction that remains should be pleasurable under normal circumstances. The first time can be painful however because of the hymen.
There are in fact biological reasons for it to be a nice thing. The only known function of the clitoris is for it give give pleasure. The female orgasm also increases fertility. I don't quite remember the specifics. Some sort of contractions for the sperm to reach further. You can look it up.
There is also an intimate and emotional part of sex. Humans are social creatures who mostly live in packs. Sex is intimate and creates a stronger bond under good conditions.

Sure but like what good is the whole 'stronger bond' and 'emotional' aspect if it's not only a side effect but also just not effective today? Like how often do you get a relationship where neither party has cheated?

and not only that but like why are there so many asexuals here

like uh guys
why
not to be rude or anything but this is a porn site, how and why are there so many of you guys

never mind that even, how many of you even are there
what if the majority of site traffic is just asexual people who just come to look at SFW images?

i have so many questions upon realising this

Ryuzaki_Izawa said:
Sure but like what good is the whole 'stronger bond' and 'emotional' aspect if it's not only a side effect but also just not effective today? Like how often do you get a relationship where neither party has cheated?

and not only that but like why are there so many asexuals here

like uh guys
why
not to be rude or anything but this is a porn site, how and why are there so many of you

never mind that even, how many of you even are there
what if the majority of site traffic is just asexual people who just come to look at SFW images?

i have so many questions upon realising this

I guess the only good thing to all this is the drop in the overall human population

Ryuzaki_Izawa said:

like uh guys
why
not to be rude or anything but this is a porn site, how and why are there so many of you

never mind that even, how many of you even are there
what if the majority of site traffic is just asexual people who just come to look at SFW images?

i have so many questions upon realising this

Because I help manage it as well as check the stats of my own work posted here. I don't actually browse anything here aside from my own artist tag and blacklist anything not rated safe. The only time I see NSFW content is when dealing with tickets (if needed) or flags.

Ratte said:
Because I help manage it as well as check the stats of my own work posted here. I don't actually browse anything here aside from my own artist tag and blacklist anything not rated safe. The only time I see NSFW content is when dealing with tickets (if needed) or flags.

well yeah because you're an admin, but like

isn't it a bit weird? to have so many people, who have zero interest in sex, to frequent a site primarily serving pornography purposes?

Ryuzaki_Izawa said:
well yeah because you're an admin, but like

isn't it a bit weird? to have so many people, who have zero interest in sex, to frequent a site primarily serving pornography purposes?

There's also e926.

Ratte said:
There's also e926.

yeah but that's not porn, tho

then again i just remembered that e926 and e621 are literally the same site but without the explicit stuff

(side question; do the two sites count the same traffic flow, or do they take separate readings?)

I'm starting to think everyone here asexual. I for one was the horniest guy in high school!

TruckNutz said:
I'm starting to think everyone here asexual. I for one was the horniest guy in high school!

I'm not. I think sex is cool. Like, it's not a must-have, but if a person I like wanna get down, I'm down for that #UnpopularOpinion

After reading this thread I realized that, indeed, the vast majority of everyone on here is male, virgin (or at least hasn't had sex with a woman), and has not a clue, largely thanks to the porn that feeds us on here. I like to think I fit only under the first two categories, but perhaps not haha.

Anyway, sex can and does feel just as good for women as men. It might work better or feel better at different times (unlike us men, who can usually go at it any time of day, week, or month), and men in general have a more motivated sex drive. This is not a very easy thing to definitively prove, however, because of the impossibility of measuring "desire".

As for the hymen, well... during childhood most hymenal tissue wears away as a result of washing, walking, athletics, self-exploration, and masturbation, though little bits may remain around the vaginal opening. Sometimes they don't wear away very well, and about one in two hundred women have small enough perforations that intercourse or the insertion of tampons will cause pain.

From Psychology Today:

Because of the mythology surrounding the hymen, many (most?) women expect first intercourse to hurt, which may become a self-fulfilling prophecy. The expectation of pain causes anxiety, which can turn minor discomfort into pain. Even when women fully consent to first intercourse, an estimated "75 percent feel unprepared and find their initial sexual experience distasteful," according to the late sex therapist Sandra Leiblum, Ph.D. "Young Romeos, even those who care deeply about their girlfriends, typically lack the sexual skill and finesse for enjoyable intercourse." Fearful that women may change their minds, young men often rush into intercourse before women feel emotionally ready for it, and before their vaginas have become sufficiently relaxed and receptive for pain-free intercourse. Once erections enter young women, the men they're attached to often imitate the pounding, piston-like action of pornography. Such mechanical, non-sensual sex can also cause pain.

This is just one reason why I hate porn, and it is now believed that the hymen plays a minor, if any, role in intercourse pain in most women.

Ryuzaki_Izawa said:
Well i mean if you think about it, sex being a painful experience would make sense because like, friction? And how there's like zero biological reason for it to be a nice thing

Um, the vagina and other organs make lubrication, so that there isn't friction. However, if a woman is nervous and it's her first time she might not, um, lubricate properly and it may be painful and even a little bloody. And there's a quite excellent reason for it to be pleasurable. If it's pleasurable, than we'll all be much more likely to do it! DNA perpetuated, yay!

Sorrowless said:
No offense, but what are you doing here?

I still find a lot of things sexually attractive.

Any monkey can fuck.

Treating your partner like a goddess,
(or god)
and worshipping at the alter of them trumps all.

I just bluntly asked a few friends, I got 2 yes, 2 no.

The no's mostly complained about cleanup and how it never really stayed inside, and how they'd have to douche it out generally.

One yes described the physical feeling as "warm as fuck, it's pretty awesome", while the other said she really didn't mind it, "but take away the risks and why not".

Moon_Moon said:
I just bluntly asked a few friends, I got 2 yes, 2 no.

... while the other said she really didn't mind it, "but take away the risks and why not".

Filed under: No scalpel vasectomy, and why it is my friend ...

"Aster_Viridian" is:

A surprisingly smart dude.

But I personally don't understand why one would think it would physically hurt a female to have sex. Now, since I am actually a Virgin by choice rather than by... [Whatever], maybe that makes me sort of the the outlier in this way of thinking. But with all the girls that have engaged in highly flirtatious conversation with me in the past, I never thought that maybe it hurts them to have sex. I mean, why do something that only serves to physically hurt you and nothing more, right?

Also, I don't really understand why males just kinda go "stupid" at the sight of naked females. If may say, others my gender tend to get all pervy and "instinctual", but for some reason when I see a female, in my head I just kind of acknowledge it and move on. I think, "Yep. That is a naked Homosapien. And it's a female. So what?" And if a girl is acting very suductive around me, it just gets on my nerves WAY more than anything else.

So even with all my years of anthropology study, I can't for the life of me understand why Humans are so tremendously... "Put off" by the simplest, and albeit natural things like sex, or death, or whatever. Either way, I just find it all kind of irritating personally.

Sorrowless said:
Forgive me, but it sounds a bit weird that you like the cum inside part as a sex repulsed asexual. If you don't want to explain why, that's ok.

As an asexual, what makes you visit e621?

it just feels really good. but literally everything else about sex makes me feel uncomfortable and sick.

and just because i am unable to experience sexual attraction and i find the thought of me taking part to sexual acts with other people repulsive doesnt mean that i cannot enjoy porn.

Aster_Viridian said:
stuff

Honestly, I feel like you're being perhaps a bit too lenient.

I'm biologically male, and a virgin, but I've managed to put in the effort to understand those things.

Now given, my situation isn't exactly "normal". I've had to put in a lot more research into such subjects because of certain complexities proposed by my orientation, and to be fair, I also find the subject interesting in general. I know way too much about sexual anatomy in general.

But I feel as though if you intend to be sexually active, you should try to educate yourself. I understand most people won't actually do that, and that's why I support comprehensive sexual education (even for subjects people aren't comfortable with), but that's not an excuse.

If you intent to be intimate with someone or something, as a general rule, you should understand what that entails.

Clawdragons said:
I'm biologically male, and a virgin, but I've managed to put in the effort to understand those things.

Same.

I mean, no offense to anyone, but you don't have to be a genius to figure out how intercourse works.

NotMeNotYou said:
Different people are different. A lot, and I do mean a lot, of woman enjoy sex. I mean, woman masturbate a bunch. Why would anybody do that if it wasn't pleasurable? Nevermind the fact that an orgasm releases a ton of endorphins into the body.

The fact that a lot of people are becoming asexual is also probably more a byproduct of our current society. There have been some interesting studies made with mice that, once an utopia has been created (meaning survival of the fittest is no longer important and there is a limitless amount of food & water), that a large part of rats will simply stop pursuing sex once an overpopulation is reached. This is interesting because those mice are perfectly healthy and have a large selection of mates available. It's theorized that this might happen (and somewhat is already happening) with humans.

As a side note, I know quite a few woman who enjoy the feeling of cum inside them. But others dislike it. As so often with preferences they vary wildly from one person to another.

Can you please source this?
It sounds like an awesome read.
Thank you.

Aster_Viridian said:
Um, the vagina and other organs make lubrication, so that there isn't friction.

Shit, let me call NASA that you found a lubrication that reduces friction to zero and helps create a perfect, energy loss free system.
Just saying, but lubrication just reduces friction and doesn't get rid of it, otherwise you'd be able to create a Perpetuum mobile and be able to conserve energy in that given system forever.

Si_288 said:
Can you please source this?
It sounds like an awesome read.
Thank you.

John B. Calhoun is responsible for the studies, you can find his publications listed under bibliography.
The interesting terms to search for related material are "behavioral sink" and "proxemics" theories.

Ryuzaki_Izawa said:
Sure but like what good is the whole 'stronger bond' and 'emotional' aspect if it's not only a side effect but also just not effective today? Like how often do you get a relationship where neither party has cheated?

More often than you think but those people tend to keep fair faces shut and don't cause public drama.

Ryuzaki_Izawa said:
and not only that but like why are there so many asexuals here

like uh guys
why
not to be rude or anything but this is a porn site, how and why are there so many of you guys

Being asexual doesn't necessarily mean that they have no sex drive, it's just that they aren't romantically or sexual lyrics interested in relationships.
Though a lot of them do have a weaker sex drive.

It's matter of other side's knowledge how to do that without causing discomfort\pain. Aside of hymen , some individuals have painful sensation , because they may expierence vaginal cramps. Frankly, there are situation , when even that a little pain (from size difference or overstimulation) still works (I'm talking from words of one of my female friend, who can't be classified as mazohist :P).

Pleasure during act got important hormonal function, deprivation of that can cause trauma too. Hating sex is result of mental or physical trauma, isolating upbringing, or paradoxally, upbringing in public kindergartens (issue of negative imprinting). Really some barbaric sects actually do remove any chance of having pleasure in females, by doing illegal surgery. They create cripples that barely can have children, with risk of lethal outcome.

I'm happy with how this thread turned out. I've learned a lot and got several different opinions.
I also remembered something. Sperm contains hormones that boosts your mood.

Mutisija said:
it just feels really good. but literally everything else about sex makes me feel uncomfortable and sick.

and just because i am unable to experience sexual attraction and i find the thought of me taking part to sexual acts with other people repulsive doesnt mean that i cannot enjoy porn.

Since you don't experience sexual attraction but still enjoys porn, are we talking about nudity? Seems hard to enjoy porn if you aren't being aroused by naughty pictures.

I'm only aroused by sequins, glitter glue, and stereotypes

I am literally the easiest person to arouse. It takes NOTHING

Clawdragons said:

But I feel as though if you intend to be sexually active, you should try to educate yourself. I understand most people won't actually do that, and that's why I support comprehensive sexual education (even for subjects people aren't comfortable with), but that's not an excuse.

That sounds really fun for those who have no interest

Fenrick said:
That sounds really fun for those who have no interest

Still important. Just like history.

Sorrowless said:
Still important. Just like history.

I don't know about your curriculum, but we talked about it way more than we needed to in my experience. It's not calculus...

Besides this proposal isn't "how to avoid STDs," it's basically relationship advice. Not what school is for in my opinion.

Fenrick said:
I don't know about your curriculum, but we talked about it way more than we needed to in my experience. It's not calculus...

Besides this proposal isn't "how to avoid STDs," it's basically relationship advice. Not what school is for in my opinion.

Well, I don't know how much you talked about it. It can get too much, especially if it reaches a point where it starts repeating itself. Some basic relationship advice is a good thing in my opinion.

Then there are schools in the US where abstinence is the recommended method to avoid STDs and pregnancy. Very naive.

Sorrowless said:
Since you don't experience sexual attraction but still enjoys porn, are we talking about nudity? Seems hard to enjoy porn if you aren't being aroused by naughty pictures.

when i look at porn i cannot enjoy "the sexiness" of characters. like i might enjoy their appearance aesthetically but not sexually. seeing some sexy nude character in sexy pose does not arouse me at all. but what instead focus on in porn... its very hard to describe but i try: i try to focus on imagining what the thing thats going on in image could feel like to me theoretically in some sort of imaginary world where most disgusting parts of sex do not exist or they feel pleasant instead of disgusting.

Sorrowless said:
there are schools in the US where abstinence is the recommended method to avoid STDs and pregnancy.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ztVMib1T4T4

Sorrowless said:

Then there are schools in the US where abstinence is the recommended method to avoid STDs and pregnancy. Very naive.

If you have sex your penis will fall off and land in another dimension populated entirely by dogs who will eat it

TruckNutz said:
If you have sex your penis will fall off and land in another dimension populated entirely by dogs who will eat it

this is somebody's fetish

Zenti said:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ztVMib1T4T4

Well, maybe not recommended. But the only one being used. Feel free to debunk me if I'm wrong.

Mutisija said:
when i look at porn i cannot enjoy "the sexiness" of characters. like i might enjoy their appearance aesthetically but not sexually. seeing some sexy nude character in sexy pose does not arouse me at all. but what instead focus on in porn... its very hard to describe but i try: i try to focus on imagining what the thing thats going on in image could feel like to me theoretically in some sort of imaginary world where most disgusting parts of sex do not exist or they feel pleasant instead of disgusting.

Well that is... interesting. You imagine yourself a happy go land of porn.
How does romantic comics work for you?

NotMeNotYou said:
The fact that a lot of people are becoming asexual is also probably more a byproduct of our current society. There have been some interesting studies made with mice that, once an utopia has been created (meaning survival of the fittest is no longer important and there is a limitless amount of food & water), that a large part of rats will simply stop pursuing sex once an overpopulation is reached. This is interesting because those mice are perfectly healthy and have a large selection of mates available. It's theorized that this might happen (and somewhat is already happening) with humans.

huh, that's interesting.

Ryuzaki_Izawa said:
isn't it a bit weird? to have so many people, who have zero interest in sex, to frequent a site primarily serving pornography purposes?

28 here and closest i've ever come to that would be my hands so i can't really comment on this particular topic. it's not that i'm not at least curious about it but...i've never really been THAT interested in it if that makes sense. 28 years and counting of nothing pretty much but you won't hear me complain. though it might have to do with the fact that, irl, i'm not all that interested in going out and meeting other people when i can stay in my room and be content with the internet and my video games and other stuff.

o.O that might make me sound a little weird compared to most people but whatever.