Siral_Exan said:
We are trying to fix one set, the intersex tags. The stigma doesn't need to be on the site if it can be changed! (heavy emphasis there), and just because it does exist and works doesn't mean it should stay. Plenty of negative tags have been aliased away, we intend to make cuntboy and dickgirl follow suit.Coward shouldn't exist as a tag either, as one person may see the fight-or-flight response, and another may see actual cowardice.
The stigma placed on any word only persists because people let it persist. As long as it still bothers them, it will never go away. The sooner people ignore the stigma and parse a word or phrase based on its definition alone, the sooner issues like this stop happening.
As terms, there is nothing functionally wrong with dickgirl and cuntboy. They describe a specific thing well enough and they are relatively well-known. Before this thread, I have never once heard of anyone having any issue with these terms.
Capitulating to the weakness of a vocal minority is not the answer. The world is cruel, life isn't fair. They need to harden up and endure it. Like I said in forum #211684, if offensiveness is their only argument, they don't have an argument.
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